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I am at my 403rd visit as of today. At the heart of the nursing home crisis are residents like my wife, Linda, confined for 25 months at Prestige Care Center, Plattsmouth, Nebraska. I visit daily, with a well-honed, structured visit of personal care, monitoring, and taking her outside or to activities. I have made her room comfortable with everything within her reach. Meanwhile, because I am a curmudgeon, the Nursing Home has placed more sanctions on me than a Russian Oligarch. Of course, I am fighting back against visitor bans, denied religious services, and blocked therapy. There are rewards and victories too: On May 1, 2025, Linda took 1,025 steps in Physical Therapy, showing resilience despite a possible TIA. Residents face neglect and reduced life expectancy, trapped by a profit-driven system. But we continue to feed the birds and squirrels and plant flowers as a tangible sign of hope.
Linda’s Victory Photo
A somber group of elderly amidst flames, symbolizing suffE.(Physical Therapy)g.
The bullseye: Residents (red), Angels (white), Enablers (cyan), Syndicate (yellow), State & Fed Cash (green), Daily Visits (orange), Resources (purple).
I’m a 71-year-old professor fighting for my wife, Linda, fueled by love and righteous anger at a greedy system. Nursing Home Rhymes, launching June 2025, blends Linda’s story with investigative journalism, inspired by Mary Adelaide Mendelson's Tender Loving Greed, David Riesman's The Lonely Crowd and a ton of research on the Nursing Home Syndicate. Linda and I are counting down to a June 30 showdown contested hearing in Douglas County--PR 22-1652. Share your stories about this developing story!
Contact: info@nursinghomerhymes.com
Learn more about resources: CareNebraska.org
Compassionate caregivers and advocates are the white layer of hope. Disability Rights of Nebraska’s 2023 report, Who’s Guarding the Guardians?, exposes guardianship abuses. Senator Wendy DeBoer pushes visitation rights bills, and Nebraska Appleseed fights Iowa nursing home atrocities. They inspire Nursing Home Rhymes to demand change.
Compassionate caregivers with halos, offE.(Physical Therapy)g hope.
Poem by Anonymous
Administrators and guardians enable neglect at places like Prestige, enforcing restrictive policies and aligning with profit-driven owners. My May 1, 2025, visit log notes Linda’s guardian prioritizing facility interests, blocking her autonomy. These enablers perpetuate understaffing and care failures, shielding the syndicate’s greed.
Faceless administrators in shadows, symbolizing complicity.
W.H. Auden
Owners like Ephram “Mordy” Lahasky and Yisroel Kaplan, linked to Prestige, use shell companies to siphon Medicaid and Medicare funds, as exposed by Mary Mendelson’s 1974 book, Tender Loving Greed. This “nursing home syndicate” prioritizes profit, leading to neglect and reduced resident life expectancy, a crisis Nursing Home Rhymes will uncover.
Predatory sharks circling gold coins, representing greed.
Emily Dickinson
At the heart of this corrupt empire sits Ephram "Mordy" Lahasky, a slick operator whose tentacles stretch from Prestige Care Center to fraud-ridden facilities nationwide. With Yisroel Kaplan, Sam Halper, Michael Konig, and Steven Krausman, Lahasky’s syndicate rakes in billions while residents like Linda Marie Lefebvre endure neglect, abuse, and stolen dignity.
Lahasky’s empire of greed leaves a trail of suffE.(Physical Therapy)g: 70-day visitation bans, denied therapy, and blocked church access at Prestige, as documented in Linda’s visit logs. This isn’t just money stolen—it’s lives diminished, families shattered, and justice mocked. Join Nursing Home Rhymes to smash this syndicate!
The Lahasky Syndicate
Web of Greed
See the evidence in Linda’s visit logs and join the fight against the nursing home syndicate.
Public funds meant for care are misdirected by lax oversight from CMS and Nebraska DHHS, fueling the syndicate. Prestige’s CMS violations, noted in my court filings, show how federal and state cash enables exploitation. Families should check Nursing Home Compare for ownership transparency.
Stacks of dollar bills diverted by corrupt hands.
Naomi Lazard
As of today, I’ve made my 403rd visit to Linda at Prestige Care Center, Plattsmouth. Each day, I provide personal care, monitor her well-being, and take her outside for activities like feeding birds and squirrels or planting flowers. I’ve arranged her room for comfort, with everything within reach, despite facing sanctions from the facility for my advocacy. These visits are a testament to love and resilience, fighting against visitor bans and care restrictions.
Daily visits to Prestige Care Center of Plattsmouth, Nebraska document Linda Marie Lefebvre’s experience, exposing violations and moments of care in PR 22-1652.
Time: 12:55PM to 3:10PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
On-again, off-again. Asked about food or drink. The whole surprise routine, sneaking up behind, the waiting for them to come up with a new twist on harassment, has me feeling so jumpy. The harassment is impacting my health, the quality of the visits, and Linda's care. It cannot go on. Prestige will not communicate with me. It is like a No-Man’s-Land of wary anticipation and psychological belittlement. Sad (both Linda and I agree). Sad, because this is visit No. 403 and we know this kind of mistreatment just cannot go on.
Time: 2:15PM to 3:15PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
No one is forcing anyone to visit my site and work product, unlike Prestige’s profit-driven propaganda that families can’t avoid when seeking care. Today’s visit, my 402nd, is the turning point—Prestige’s chilling silence, an empty front desk like a setup, fuels my fight. Spoke to Linda, and boy, is she upset—her fire in her belly belies dementia, a spark propelling survival. I’m literally shaking; this legion—lawyers, Toto, my brother-in-law, Prestige’s top tier, a GAL from a huge firm—is too much. Am I wrong? Hours posting these visits drain me, but my questions won’t be silenced. Turner and Pallesen, wielding legal might, scorn my curiosity as “scandalous” while dodging truth. Turner’s motion, ignoring my 167-page April 4th affidavit but crying over my podcast, proves I hit a nerve—her Florida lie and rushed $3,750 motion (15 hours, $250/hour) scream bias. Who’s paying her? Nursing Home Rhymes lays bare Linda’s confinement, sparked by her July 2024 disclosure of childhood molestation by her brother, which Toto buried as dementia to silence her. I reject that lie; it explains their 70-day ban on me and Linda’s life sentence. My opinions are my right—no judge can strip my First Amendment voice. Prestige, mute to me, plasters resident photos, including Linda’s and possibly deceased residents, on their site and Facebook without CMS consents, profiting with stock photos and deceptive imagery while Turner attacks my court-approved likeness use. Where are their consents? My database, the only privately accessible site for Nebraska nursing homes, bleeds my wallet to serve the public, unlike their greed. My old friend, Harvey Silverglate’s warning—three felonies daily from over-criminalization—pushes me toward a Constitutional attorney. Therapy fights my PTSD—startle reactions, dread, sweaty dreams in Arabic—but Linda’s sharper, sparked by her Shakira perfume request. Our bond defies their papers. Life’s an As the World Turns saga—regrets, foes, and all. Their whole attack on me is a Put On. A false construct. It is a false story with no feet. It will not stand! And that is my opinion. Oh, well!
Time: 11:55AM to 2:14PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
It feels remarkable that this is visit No. 401! What a long, strange trip it has been. (No Regurts?) Last year before the eventful call from Linda to her brother, the visits were relaxed and pleasant. I just feel brutalized. The treatment has triggered my PTSD replete with night sweats that soak the bed, startle reactions, and feelings of dread. In a hostile environment such as this, I feel like I can be attacked at any second. Linda has lost a lot of her spark after the brutal forced separation of 70 days--a forced absence without reason, but meant to inflict psychological harm upon us. Congratulations! It worked. Visit No. 401, and counting.
Time: Sick Day-Steven
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
On a sick day, I realize how much I miss Linda—it’s like an ache that goes from the heart to the stomach. σπλαγχνίζομαι (splagchnizomai)—"to be moved as to one’s bowels."(Luke 7:13) This one-day break from visiting also feels like the coiled spring of running the gauntlet of visiting Linda: almost a corporeal punishment.2 I am thankful to get weekly therapy to endure this. What is this? This bewildering and nightmarishly illogical set of invisible rules. Yeah, it is a nightmare to visit my wife. One that stresses me out to dangerous extremes for my own health.3 But today is homemade soup with Cornish hen stock, potatoes, carrots, celery, rice, and some za’atar spices with a whole clove of roasted garlic. Invisible rules: No Soup for Linda!
Time: 1:30 PM to 3:50 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
A wonderful Sunday, partially spoiled by distant people—emotionally and geographically—who seem intent on grinding Linda and me into the dirt. Hard to endure. I guess it would make everyone happy if I stopped visiting and fighting for Linda. That is not going to happen.
Time: 12:30 PM to 3:30 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Noted at 07:20 PM CDT on Saturday, May 17, 2025: Many residents, including Linda’s roommate, M., are ill with a gastrointestinal bug, causing debilitating vomiting and diarrhea. Linda’s weakness was expected, yet we had a good day. D. was gone when I left. Nursing homes aren’t designed to search visitors, and CMS likely doesn’t fund such practices. These searches are harassing and demeaning, especially in front of Linda, with staff spreading slander about me. It’s neither kind nor legal. The nurse’s coerced phone call to Linda’s sister-guardian, Carol, against Linda’s wishes, is another assault on her autonomy, flouting rules and laws. Most egregious, Prestige defies a judge’s order (Case C01 PR-22-0001652) to provide their Rule Book, a standard document other nursing homes use for visitor hours and policies. Instead, Trista Driscoll, Director of Nursing, sent a link to an 873-page CMS State Operations Manual, claiming it contains “all regulations we follow,” and refuses to discuss it, stonewalling me entirely (email exchange, April 18-22, 2025). This is a blatant “FU,” telling me I’m a piece of s___t, confirming their contempt of court and ongoing harassment while violating the very regulations they cite. As Linda’s spouse, I have rights to transparency and involvement in her care, yet Prestige arbitrarily strips these away, treating me like a defendant in Kafka’s *The Trial*—trapped in a bureaucratic nightmare with no recourse. Their actions demand accountability. Still confounded about the removal of assistive technology, i.e., the Google Home Machine, which Linda has depended on for years and is vital for her to access information. It’s like they cut off one of her limbs, akin to taking away glasses or a white cane from a blind person. That removal is just plain wrong and discriminatory, denying her essential accommodations and equal access to communication. I went to 4:00 PM Mass alone and greeted the other residents from Prestige who were attending. No one can understand why Linda cannot attend Mass. What Country are we in? Linda has asked over and over to go to Church with other residents. The "No" goes unexplained—Franz Kafka would probably understand. Other residents go every Saturday, oxygen tanks and colostomy bags and all.
Time:No Visit
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
I will keep checking in to see if my visit today is advisable. Probably better to wait until tomorrow. The nursing home’s environment, like a Petri dish, fosters collective illness. Frustrating part is that as a spouse, I have spousal interests, and am the de facto, on-the-ground, guardian. Yet, I am ignored and held incommunicado, greatly impacting Linda's care and health. This is just plain wrong. I cannot even call anyone at Prestige about Linda's condition. Blocked by a callous, uncaring guardian some 1700 miles away, a willing Prestige as a co-conspirator. There ought to be a law.Prestige Care Center's refusal to allow me, as Linda's devoted husband, to inquire about her health during a dangerous outbreak is not only immoral and unethical but also a profound violation of the sacred bonds of marriage and the divine principles of compassion upheld by the scriptures of God.
Time: 12:30 PM to 2:50 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
It is still really unpleasant to visit down there. Do they intend to maintain this hostile environment for years? Trust is an issue. These notes are my only protection—and Linda’s only protection. It is plain as day that this hostility is impacting Linda’s treatment in many dimensions. They should just stop it (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).
Time: 4:36 PM to 6:30 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Bamboo growing before our eyes!
So proud of Linda: shower, wheelchair, PT—huge achievements! There is still a coolness at Prestige, but with the "Big Wigs" absent later, it was less like being an insect in a glass bottle. Visitors brought boxes, bags, and coolers with treats and food. A lady with two cloth shopping bags got hot water for tea for her visitee. The inconsistency in food policies is stark. I have documented bringing hundreds of meals. As Linda and I discussed—she is still alive (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
Time: 1:36 PM to 4:10 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Watching My Wife from Threshold
The weather and seeing color in Linda's face make me want to get down on my knees and thank God. Thank Him for so much undeserved grace. I continue to be stunned how a professional workplace can wear their animosity toward me so openly, perhaps proudly. Folks can justify anything when they wake up in the morning and go down the list of who they hate—their enemy list. I, personally, try to cleanse myself of any bitterness in reaction to being mistreated. It is easier not to carry that burden. I get worried sick about Linda. She needs a daily visit and stimulation. Everything that the guardian and Prestige do is just plain against the Book (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).
Time: 1:37 PM to 3:05 PM, Video and Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Mentally, she is more focused and purpose-driven about improving her situation. We both feel the oppression of those at Prestige who truly dislike us. Why they follow instructions from a puppet-master in Florida (Toto) is still an enigma. There is not a single nursing home visitor in this state that has been treated as shabbily as I have been, with no reason and no recourse (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)). In the PM, Linda called and said her sister keeps calling, but she does not want to answer. She is going to ask them to put it in the chart that she does not want to speak to her sister. She is doing this on her own, with no prompting from me. They keep bringing the house phone to her, so it is duress. Just bad blood there, I suspect (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).
Time: 12:37 PM to 3:25 PM, Video and Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Podcast lit a fire in her belly. Proud of her for PT and standing up for rights. Forcing full-sentence replies to counter the funk from the 70-day ban. Stunned by yesterday’s underhanded events. Nursing home is a sensory deprivation lab; residents aren’t brought outside in spectacular weather (42 CFR § 483.25).
Time: 12:25 PM to 2:25 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda’s fire is back! Proud of her standing up, refusing Goodman, and pushing for PT. Carol’s dastardly calls and Wester’s sham report rewrite her history (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608). Love is patient, love is kind.
Time: 1:05 PM to 3:25 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda slightly stronger. Discussed rebuilding strength on the fence, back to last spring’s progress. She’ll come back. Robert notes her weakness from 70-day separation, sees T. (Head of Nursing)’s absence as relaxing. Robert cannot understand how he was banned by an email from Toto to Prestige with no notice or reason, and subsequently how it came about that he is not banned. They are just playing loose with whatever rules they have in the Rule Book they were ordered to supply to me by the Judge, but did not (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d). I believe it is called selective discrimination. And that is a fact.
Time: 12:05 PM to 2:45 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Visit 385 shows understaffing’s toll. Angels (staff) stressed. Linda needs daily visits to move, talk, emerge from malaise. Nursing home lacks stimulation; shallow conversations. Studies show that residents’ health deteriorates faster in a nursing home setting. So it is a self-fulfilling prediction that the longer a resident stays, the more they will need to stay. Profits until the last resident is standing or wheeling. I know that is a cynical take, but I am a years-long observer, CNA, and Peer Support Specialist with a keen eye and ear. The 70-day ban’s cruelty will take months to overcome (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 11:05 AM to 2:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Prestige’s hostility persists, but Linda’s engagement (discussing court, marriage) shows resilience. Fresh air critical, yet staff neglect outdoor time. Bamboo symbolizes hope amidst adversity (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 12:25 PM to 2:35 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Hatred palpable; forcing Linda to call Carol is unconscionable (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)). She’s fading, may need hospice at home. Management avoids eye contact, reflecting slander (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839). Prestige’s neglect and Carol’s pressure are to blame (42 CFR § 483.25).
Time: 11:50 AM to 2:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda’s uncomfortable, depressed from humiliation and 70-day ban. Stress from Prestige’s neglect and unconsented actions (blood draw, room move) worsens her health. I’ll never stop fighting for her (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 1:10 PM to 5:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda weak, unsteady from 70-day ban. Depressed, finds no beauty. Suggested hawk, church, marriage. Small acts (perfume, sewing) lift her soul. Prestige’s neglect dims her spirit. Even her soul is imprisoned here (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 1:47 PM to 4:01 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
The 70-day ban wasn’t good for Linda. They turned our love as a weapon against us. Weak, unstable, but fighting back with PT. Prestige’s pressure (call light lecture) and room change harm her. They gang up on her 3 to 1 or 2 to 1 (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 1:25 PM to 3:24 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda’s smile improves, but 70-day ban weakened her. Harassment (pizza theft, door blocking) targets us, violating court order. Lahasky/Kaplan’s mismanagement fuels neglect. Really, taking pizza from a visitor? There are no dietary restrictions. It is selective discrimination and slander (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
Time: 1:25 PM to 3:24 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda’s smile, dimples improving. Fresh air helps, but arm weak. Staff hostility persists, except a few. Structured visits with meaning (Bible, wedding) give hope (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 12:25 PM to 1:50 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda more vital, smile stronger. Oppressive atmosphere; staff try to break me. Only visitor searched in Nebraska, requiring courage. Prestige’s victory is no visits; mine is love. I used my own supplies to clean Linda’s bathroom for two years. Why was today different? Tried to take my air freshener, until I pointed out the roommate had some. Reluctantly allowed me to have it. If this is not harassment, nothing is (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
Time: 12:35 PM to 1:40 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda slowly improving post-TIA. 68-day ban and room change hurt her. Wants home-cooked meal, banned. Step-by-step visits cherished. This is like Nuremberg—just following orders. But the orders here are anonymous (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 3:00 PM to 4:40 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda’s post-TIA recovery slow; Prestige denies it. 68-day ban caused decline. Goal: functional room, uneventful visits, outdoor time (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: 11:10 AM to 1:15 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda weakened, likely TIA. Staff non-transparent, hostile. Sheets unchanged for weeks; room messy. Bare-minimum care harms rest (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda struggled with delays; PT progress noted. Isolation and neglect persist (42 CFR § 483.25).
Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Downtrodden; Trazodone timing concerning. Room conditions poor.
Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Slightly better but defeated; poor room conditions persist.
Time: Phone and Video Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Lethargic, no anger; inadequate staff response. TIA symptoms concerning.
Time: Phone and VideoCalls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Suspected TIA, confusion; room change, block worsened decline.
Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Sad, isolated; visitation block caused shock.
Time: 10:00 AM to 10:38 AM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Friendly staff; Linda cried, reported discomfort, said, “I have no sister.”
Time: 11:10 AM to 2:28 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Linda weaker, trembling; cramped room 509. Staff tense; focused on her comfort.
Time: 11:10 AM to 1:49 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Cramped room 509; staff monitored closely. Carol responds to one of 20 calls. Linda’s normal SLUMS score shows competence.
Time: 11:00 AM to 11:10 AM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048
Assumed Pallesen, Turner informed Prestige of Judge Huber’s order; denial unexpected.
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Over the period from December 2022 to April 2025, a total of 467 visits were recorded in the visitation log for Linda at Prestige. Of these, homemade or fast food was permitted during approximately 84.7% of the visits.
For the complete visitation log, view the full document.
View Full Visitation Log (PDF)
Visit | Date | Status | Food Items Brought | Notes |
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1 | 12/13/2022 | Allowed | None | First visit with Linda as she arrives to Prestige. |
2 | 12/14/2022 | Allowed | Salmon, Rice, Apple Tartlet, Coffee | Provided denture cream, Christmas cards. Tooth ache. |
3 | 12/16/2022 | Allowed | Chicken Salad | |
4 | 12/19/2022 | Allowed | Meat Loaf, Jimmy John Subs (Roast beef, no mayo) | |
5 | 12/20/2022 | Allowed | Hot dogs, onion, coffee, cough drops | |
6 | 12/21/2022 | Allowed | Breakfast Biscuit and Gravy | Per Carol, Linda had great day. Tooth ache. PT. Brought electric blanket. |
7 | 12/22/2022 | Allowed | Pork Chop | Linda rooming with Mary, PT Melissa’s mother-in-law. |
8 | 12/23/2022 | Allowed | Shrimp, Roast Beef, Pudding | Linda incontinent, pooped self. Brought blankets. Scott sick in Florida. |
9 | 12/25/2022 | Allowed | Mac and Cheese, Corn Bread, Candy, Jolly Ranchers | Christmas. Julie needed IV in Florida. |
10 | 12/28/2022 | Allowed | None | Kathleen: Richard Guardian on standby. No PT. Linda reports pain. |
11 | 12/29/2022 | Allowed | Cheese burger, no salt fries | Scott and Julie sick. Linda yelling, screaming, detox. Per Carol: Richard to control Linda; better if Steven not visits until settled. |
12 | 01/22/2023 | Phone | None | Spoke to Linda. Sea change in attitude, humbled. |
13 | 01/23/2023 | Allowed | Shrimp, Roast beef, Pudding | |
14 | 01/25/2023 | Allowed | Sausage and Biscuits | Registered Church of Holy Spirit. Linda needs pants from closet. |
15 | 01/26/2023 | Allowed | Roast beef, guacamole | Scott’s friend died. |
16 | 02/09/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | |
17 | 02/11/2023 | Allowed | Meatballs | |
18 | 02/12/2023 | Allowed | Penne and Sauce, Sprite | Watched Superbowl. Brought pillow, laundry. |
19 | 02/14/2023 | Allowed | Mac & Cheese, Valentine’s Day Card, Candy | Washed clothes, pillow. Huber’s bailiff fired. Richard and Carol “Toached.” |
20 | 02/15/2023 | Allowed | Penne and Sauce | Processed photos for Linda. |
21 | 02/17/2023 | Allowed | Stuffed Shells | |
22 | 02/19/2023 | Allowed | Sushi from Bakers, Baba Ganoush | |
23 | 02/20/2023 | Allowed | Lasagna, Ricotta, Basil, Parsley, Brownies (no nuts) | Fixed Linda’s montage. Julie 3 months pregnant. |
24 | 02/21/2023 | Allowed | Leftovers, Girl Scout cookies | Prayed. An.(Head of Admissions) came to room. |
25 | 02/23/2023 | Allowed | Mac & Cheese | Kathlyn came by. Linda has wrist alarm. |
26 | 02/25/2023 | Allowed | Oysters, Roast Beef, Yellow cake | |
27 | 02/27/2023 | Allowed | Crab cakes, Sprite | Brought church envelope, Catholic Cemetery plot. |
28 | 03/01/2023 | Allowed | Shrimp, Sprite, Carrots, Mucinex | Brought screwdriver for Linda’s glasses. |
29 | 03/04/2023 | Allowed | Crab cakes, lemon, Sprite | Brought Pretty Woman DVD for Linda. |
30 | 03/06/2023 | Allowed | Lasagna | Called Linda’s dentist for appointment on 9th. |
31 | 03/11/2023 | Allowed | Sprite, Hummus, Yogurt & Honey, Coffee, Brownies | Brought socks, booties. |
32 | 03/14/2023 | Allowed | Chicken Fricassee | |
33 | 03/22/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Baba Ganoush, Zaatar | T.(Head of Nursing): Linda has not left room. Brought knee brace. |
34 | 04/02/2023 | Allowed | Coffee cake | Palm Sunday. Glenna’s Birthday. |
35 | 04/03/2023 | Allowed | Chicken Caccitore, Baba Ganoush, Easter eggs, Hershey Kisses | |
36 | 04/04/2023 | Allowed | Kimchi, Pasta, Versace Perfume | |
37 | 04/05/2023 | Allowed | Penne and Chicken | Adjusted glasses. |
38 | 04/06/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | Brought some for Tabby. Adjusted glasses. |
39 | 04/08/2023 | Allowed | Crab cakes, Sashimi, Whipped garlic potatoes, Key lime pie Blackstone, banana bread, raspberries"> | |
40 | 04/11/2023 | Allowed | Chicken and Pasta | |
41 | 04/18/2023 | Allowed | Chicken thighs | Joe: better at PT. An.(Head of Admissions): dentist in 2 weeks, mood improved. |
42 | 04/23/2023 | Allowed | Crab cakes, soup | Prayed for Leslie’s divorce tomorrow. |
43 | 04/24/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, yogurt, Sprite | Steven’s bank account $0.90. |
44 | 04/25/2023 | Allowed | Sausage and Spaghetti | |
45 | 04/30/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Sweet Potatoes, Nuts for Squirrels | Brought hangers for Linda’s closet. |
46 | 05/03/2023 | Allowed | Penne, Sushi, Yogurt, Coffee | Took wheelchair out of car, installed electric photo album, brought thin socks, sewing kit. |
47 | 05/05/2023 | Allowed | Jalapenos, Fish Sticks, Lemon, Tartar Sauce, Ice Coffee | Brought Valclean for dentures. |
48 | 05/07/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Yogurt, Coffee | Brought pillow cases, organized closet. |
49 | 05/11/2023 | Allowed | Bow Ties, Pudding, Chicken, Gravy, Mashed Potatoes, Ice Coffee | Addressed cradle cap, foot doctor, nails. |
50 | 05/13/2023 | Allowed | Fish sticks with Lemon and Tartar Sauce, Pudding, Penne with Sauce | Gave $20 in fives. |
51 | 05/18/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Sushi | Care plan meeting with T.(Head of Nursing), An.(Head of Admissions), Linda, Carol (phone). Discussed DNR, visited funeral home. |
52 | 05/19/2023 | Allowed | None | Told Linda not visiting if attitude does not improve. |
53 | 05/21/2023 | Allowed | None | Told Linda “they” don’t want visits until behavior improves: meds, bed, PT. |
54 | 05/25/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Pasta, Coffee | Linda ID renewal. |
55 | 05/27/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Tapioca, Coffee | Brought poster board, socks, T-shirt. Got card from niece Julie. |
56 | 05/29/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Pasta, Carrots, Coffee | Measured ring size, brought church envelopes, patched chair, mailed Julie card with photos. |
57 | 06/04/2023 | Allowed | Pasta | Visited with Robert. Sent card to Scott and Felicia with photos. |
58 | 06/06/2023 | Allowed | Pasta | Saved bottles to make own Starbucks. Sent Father’s Day card to Panchee, brought church envelope, Biofreeze. |
59 | 06/08/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Turkey Sandwiches, Dessert, Whip Cream | Fixed Linda’s Bible. |
60 | 06/10/2023 | Allowed | Orzo, Rice w. Lemon, Starbucks, Whip Cream, Coffee w. Vanilla | Kim’s birthday. |
61 | 06/12/2023 | Allowed | None | Linda fell off toilet seat, tried to grab sink. Brought disinfectant spray. New regimen. |
62 | 06/15/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Pudding, Coffee | Needs new recliner, dentures. |
63 | 06/16/2023 | Allowed | Baked beans w. onion, Turkey Sandwich, Coffee | Sent thank you cards to Carol, T.(Head of Nursing), An.(Head of Admissions). |
64 | 06/18/2023 | Allowed | Sandwiches, Coffee, Cake | |
65 | 06/21/2023 | Allowed | Chicken, Strawberries, Coffee, Whip Cream | Washed throws, sheets for Linda’s chair. |
66 | 06/22/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Coffee, Pudding | |
67 | 06/23/2023 | Allowed | Pork chops, Rice, Coffee, Strawberries | Sent thank you to J.(Transportation) Mitchell, brought hammer, brads for bathroom. |
68 | 06/26/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwich, Coffee, Apple Tartlets, Potato aux gratin | |
69 | 06/27/2023 | Allowed | Meatloaf, Pudding, Coffee | Brought charger, string for pull cords, small pillow, hot sauce. Steven returned heart monitor. |
70 | 06/28/2023 | Allowed | Beans, Rice, Apple Tartlet | Fixed motor on Linda’s chair, brought small stands for photos, bird seed. |
71 | 06/29/2023 | Allowed | Turkey, Coffee, Apple Tartlets | Fixed chair, motor again. |
72 | 06/30/2023 | Allowed | Corn, Pasta, Coffee, Pudding | Chair fixed. Sent cards to Richard, Scott, Andrew. |
73 | 07/04/2023 | Allowed | Hotdogs, Relish, Pudding, Coffee, Apple Tartlet | |
74 | 07/06/2023 | Allowed | None | Brought church envelopes. Fixed chair. |
75 | 07/07/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Cake, Starbucks | |
76 | 07/08/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Pudding, Coffee | Brought Aleve, photos, frames. |
77 | 07/10/2023 | Allowed | Turkey, Patties, Strawberries, Coffee | |
78 | 07/12/2023 | Allowed | Flatbread, Cake, Coffee | |
79 | 07/14/2023 | Allowed | Cod, Coffee, Cake | Did laundry, brought wedding photos. |
80 | 07/17/2023 | Allowed | Orzo, Cake, Coffee | PT, played bingo. |
81 | 07/18/2023 | Allowed | Chicken, Strawberries, Jelly, Coffee, Rice | Day Carol had car accident. |
82 | 07/20/2023 | Allowed | Hamburgers | Did nails. |
83 | 07/21/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Dessert, Coffee | |
84 | 07/22/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Apple Tart, Coffee | PT, played bingo. |
85 | 07/24/2023 | Allowed | Hot dogs, sauerkraut, Jelly w. whipped cream, Coffee | Belly danced with Rene. |
86 | 07/26/2023 | Allowed | Penne w. meat sauce, Tartlets, Coffee | PT, bingo. Brought hammer, nails, flashlight. |
87 | 07/27/2023 | Allowed | Pork chops, Sweet Potato, Coffee, Dessert | Fixed chair. |
88 | 07/30/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Coffee, Dessert | Linda did PT. |
89 | 07/31/2023 | Allowed | None | Linda to hospital. No oatmeal. Conference with T.(Head of Nursing). |
90 | 08/03/2023 | Allowed | Clams, Turkey | Carol ordE.(Physical Therapy)g brace, toilet seat. Made out cards to send. |
91 | 08/07/2023 | Allowed | Linguine, Dessert from Dairy Queen | PT, played cards. |
92 | 08/08/2023 | Allowed | Hamburgers | Took photos of Linda’s feet for Carol. |
93 | 08/09/2023 | Allowed | Hyvee Dessert and Platter, Sweet Potato, Pizza, Coffee | Sent card to Father Timmermann. |
94 | 08/12/2023 | Allowed | Pasta | Linda’s birthday party. Cards for Linda, roommate Caroline. |
95 | 08/13/2023 | Allowed | Beef tips, Potatoes, Apple Tarts | |
96 | 08/14/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches, dessert | |
97 | 08/15/2023 | Allowed | Plantains, Black beans, Salmon | |
98 | 08/16/2023 | Allowed | Hot dogs, sauerkraut, Beans, Coffee, Pudding | |
99 | 08/17/2023 | Allowed | Pasta | Linda did nails. |
100 | 08/18/2023 | Allowed | None | Belly dance, PT, bingo. Sent card. |
101 | 08/20/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches | |
102 | 08/21/2023 | Allowed | Turkey and Roast Beef sandwiches | Steven got flu. |
103 | 08/27/2023 | Allowed | Hot dogs, sauerkraut, coffee, apple tartlets | |
104 | 08/28/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Coffee in Thermos | |
105 | 08/29/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Coffee | |
106 | 08/30/2023 | Allowed | BBQ Beef tips, yellow rice, tea | |
107 | 08/31/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches, ice bags | Straightened Linda’s closet. |
108 | 09/01/2023 | Allowed | Pizza from Milanos, Icebags | Brought photos, jewelry. |
109 | 09/02/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches, Icebags | Did nails, straightened drawers. |
110 | 09/03/2023 | Allowed | Pasta w. meat sauce, Apple tartlets, frozen yogurt w. honey | |
111 | 09/07/2023 | Allowed | Pizza, Tartlets, Coffee | Linda called cousin Leslie. |
112 | 09/08/2023 | Allowed | Long John Silvers, shared with Caroline, Bakers | Brought socks, shoes. |
113 | 09/09/2023 | Allowed | Pizza | Linda did nails. |
114 | 09/13/2023 | Allowed | Linguine and clams | |
115 | 09/15/2023 | Allowed | Long John Silvers, Clams | |
116 | 09/19/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | |
117 | 09/20/2023 | Allowed | Beef Tips, saffron rice | |
118 | 09/29/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | Brought Linda new phone. |
119 | 10/01-14/2023 | No Visit | None | Missing days in journal. |
120 | 10/14/2023 | Allowed | BBQ Beef Tips | |
121 | 10/16/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | Sent baby blanket to Julie. |
122 | 10/17/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches with mayonnaise and tomato | |
123 | 10/18/2023 | Allowed | Spaghetti, Baba Ganoush, Coffee | PT. |
124 | 10/19/2023 | Allowed | Steak tips, potatoes, coffee | Did nails, applied cream. |
125 | 10/20/2023 | Allowed | Coffee, Sprite | Brought booties for Linda. |
126 | 10/23/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, homemade cake | Organized Linda’s closet, dresser. |
127 | 10/25/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | PT. Applied hair dye. |
128 | 10/28/2023 | Allowed | Pizza | |
129 | 10/29/2023 | Allowed | Pasta and sauce, L’Oreal | |
130 | 10/30/2023 | Allowed | Sole Almondine | |
131 | 10/31/2023 | Allowed | Roast beef, mustard, Swiss cheese, Vanilla cookies | Brought face cream, glasses. |
132 | 11/01/2023 | Allowed | Milanos Pizza | |
133 | 11/03/2023 | Allowed | Sushi | Carol cut hand on garbage chute. |
134 | 11/04/2023 | Allowed | Tacos | Brought table, did laundry. |
135 | 11/06/2023 | Allowed | McDonalds | |
136 | 11/08/2023 | Allowed | Rice, Beans, Plantain, BBQ Tips | |
137 | 11/10/2023 | Allowed | Bowties w. Sauce | |
138 | 11/13/2023 | Allowed | Penne w. clams, coffee | Brought diamond earrings, fixed glasses. |
139 | 11/15/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Coffee | Brought bulletin board for Linda. |
140 | 11/16/2023 | Allowed | Burger King | Hung Linda’s photos. |
141 | 11/17/2023 | Allowed | Pasta, Coffee | Belly dance, PT, brought photos, pillows, washcloths. |
142 | 11/18/2023 | Allowed | Crab cakes | |
143 | 11/21/2023 | Allowed | Roast beef, tomato, lettuce, mustard, pepper bread | Brought socks. |
144 | 11/22/2023 | Allowed | Sushi, Coffee | Sewed Linda’s pants, put up hooks. |
145 | 11/23/2023 | Allowed | Turkey dinner, Pumpkin pie, Cranberries | |
146 | 11/24/2023 | Allowed | Leftovers | |
147 | 11/27/2023 | Allowed | Hotdogs, sauerkraut, buns | PT, brought hooks. |
148 | 11/28/2023 | Allowed | Coffee, Sprite | Brought Linda’s long wool coat, perfume. |
149 | 11/29/2023 | Allowed | Runza, Coffee | Made Christmas card list. |
150 | 11/30/2023 | Allowed | None | PT, lunch, Carol’s anniversary. |
151 | 12/02/2023 | Allowed | Flat bread, apple tartlets | Played Jingo, brought cleaning stuff. |
152 | 12/03/2023 | Allowed | Steak, Rice, Beans, Coffee | |
153 | 12/05/2023 | Allowed | Bread, Soup | Made card for Richard’s birthday. |
154 | 12/08/2023 | Allowed | Chicken w. Plantains, carrots, bread, coffee | |
155 | 12/10/2023 | Allowed | Green peppers, coffee, apple tartlets | Brought thumbtacks for board. |
156 | 12/14/2023 | No Visit | None | No entry. |
157 | 12/16/2023 | No Visit | None | No entry. |
158 | 12/19/2023 | No Visit | None | No entry. |
159 | 12/24/2023 | No Visit | None | No entry. |
160 | 12/25/2023 | No Visit | None | No entry. |
161 | 12/26/2023 | Allowed | Gold chain | |
162 | 12/28/2023 | Allowed | Chinese food | PT, brought socks. |
163 | 12/29/2023 | Allowed | None | Steven sick. |
164 | 12/31/2023 | Allowed | Turkey sandwiches | Ironed Linda’s pants. |
Visit | Date | Status | Food Items Brought | Notes |
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165 | 01/02/2024 | Allowed | Pizza | |
166 | 01/04/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti, Sweet and Lo | |
167 | 01/11/2024 | Allowed | Waffles | Linda slid off chair with nurse Patti. |
168 | 01/12/2024 | No Visit | None | Linda left in hallway 45 min by T.(Head of Nursing). |
169 | 01/14/2024 | Allowed | Sour dough pancakes | |
170 | 01/16/2024 | Allowed | None | Carol’s friend Johnny died day after father. |
171 | 01/21/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti, Pizza, Hot Cocoa w. vanilla | |
172 | 01/23/2024 | Allowed | Plum pudding | Julie is sick. |
173 | 01/25/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
174 | 01/26/2024 | Allowed | Pizza w. mushrooms and onion | |
175 | 01/30/2024 | Allowed | Risotta | Brought church checks. |
176 | 01/31/2024 | Allowed | Sushi | PT, changed sheets. Lillian died. |
177 | 02/02/2024 | Allowed | Turkey, Swiss, avocado | |
178 | 02/06/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti | |
179 | 02/07/2024 | Allowed | Butter bread, mushroom soup | PT. |
180 | 02/08/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti | Carol: “She wants out!” |
181 | 02/11/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, sauce, bread | |
182 | 02/12/2024 | Allowed | Pizza, Apple Tartlets | Paid for fish fry from church for Linda. |
183 | 02/13/2024 | Allowed | Pork chop w. dressing, lemon, apple tartlet | Brought moisturizer. Rose passed away. Carol’s hip out. |
184 | 02/14/2024 | Allowed | Heart-shaped Pizza | PT. |
185 | 02/15/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
186 | 02/17/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs and Pasta | Brought Linda’s clothes. |
187 | 02/18/2024 | Allowed | Pasta | Brought clothes, changed sheets. |
188 | 02/19/2024 | Allowed | None | Massage, clothes. |
189 | 02/20/2024 | Allowed | Meatball sandwiches, Apple tart | Carol bronchial asthma on steroids. |
190 | 02/21/2024 | Allowed | McDonalds | Sewed Linda’s pants. |
191 | 02/23/2024 | Allowed | Salmon, saffron rice, teriyaki sauce | Brought cough drops. |
192 | 02/29/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | Sewed shirt/pants. Kyle tore bicep. |
193 | 03/01/2024 | Allowed | Bean soup | PT. Ordered earrings. |
194 | 03/02/2024 | Allowed | Soup, Pasta, Pudding | |
195 | 03/03/2024 | Allowed | Pizza | |
196 | 03/04/2024 | Allowed | Roast Beef and Avocado salad, Sweet and Lo | |
197 | 03/05/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs and Pasta | Brought check to church. |
198 | 03/08/2024 | Allowed | Salmon, rice, tartlet, garlic bread | Sewed slacks. |
199 | 03/09/2024 | Allowed | Pizza and breadsticks | |
200 | 03/11/2024 | Allowed | Stuffed bell peppers w. cucumber salad | Sent St. Patrick’s day card. |
201 | 03/13/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, garlic bread | Brought check to church. |
202 | 03/14/2024 | Allowed | Chili relleno | |
203 | 03/15/2024 | Allowed | Celery seed red cabbage soup | |
204 | 03/17/2024 | Allowed | Corn beef and cabbage, apple turnover | |
205 | 03/18/2024 | Allowed | Leftover Corn Beef | |
206 | 03/20/2024 | Allowed | Pizza | PT. |
207 | 03/21/2024 | Allowed | Enchiladas | |
208 | 03/29/2024 | Allowed | Baked honey ham | |
209 | 03/30/2024 | Allowed | None | Brought new chair with brother to Linda. |
210 | 04/03/2024 | Allowed | Runza | |
211 | 04/05/2024 | Allowed | Red Lobster | Sewed shirt. |
212 | 04/06/2024 | Allowed | Lobster, Card, Earrings | Anniversary No. 15. |
213 | 04/08/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
214 | 04/10/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu | J.(Transportation) Mitchell did nails. |
215 | 04/12/2024 | Allowed | Apple pie | Watched My Cousin Vinnie. |
216 | 04/17/2024 | Allowed | Salad, banana bread | |
217 | 04/19/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and bread | |
218 | 04/21/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, apple betty | |
219 | 04/24/2024 | Allowed | Salmon and orzo salad | Walked outside. |
220 | 04/25/2024 | Allowed | Red Lobster | Meet & Greet at Prestige. Met entire staff. |
221 | 04/27/2024 | Allowed | Pasta | Tornado alert. Linda won’t go to hall. |
222 | 04/29/2024 | Allowed | Sauce, Garlic bread | Carol at dentist. Fight w. Julie. |
223 | 04/30/2024 | Allowed | Garlic toast | Julie’s baby sick, temp. 103. |
224 | 05/02/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs and Pasta | |
225 | 05/03/2024 | Allowed | Sushi | Brought Linda’s clothes from dry cleaners. Card for nurse Patti’s birthday. |
226 | 05/04-05/2024 | Allowed | None | Kentucky Derby Party. |
227 | 05/07/2024 | Allowed | Cheese steak | Cleaned Linda’s closet. |
228 | 05/08/2024 | Allowed | Stuffed peppers | Mailed Mother’s Day cards to Julie and Carol. |
229 | 05/13/2024 | Allowed | Peppers, bread, artichokes, Chicken Cordon Bleu | |
230 | 05/15/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | Brought bird seed, nuts. |
231 | 05/16/2024 | Allowed | McDonalds | Visited with brother. |
232 | 05/17/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, tres leche | |
233 | 05/18/2024 | Allowed | Crepe w. Bechamel sauce | |
234 | 05/20/2024 | Allowed | Beef Wellington | PT, went outside, did nails, sewed pants. |
235 | 05/22/2024 | Allowed | Salad, Meatballs w. sauce, Banana bread, Soda | |
236 | 05/24/2024 | Allowed | Stuffed mushroom, salad, blueberry cake | |
237 | 05/27/2024 | Allowed | Catfish, salad, strawberry shortcake | Did nails, changed sheets. |
238 | 05/29/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu | |
239 | 05/31/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, pasta, apple pie | |
240 | 06/01/2024 | Allowed | Burger King, salad | |
241 | 06/03/2024 | Allowed | Shrimp, tomatoes, pie, cookies | |
242 | 06/07/2024 | Allowed | Pasta & Pie | |
243 | 06/08/2024 | Allowed | Crepes and Bread | |
244 | 06/10/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti, Blueberries, avocado | |
245 | 06/12/2024 | Allowed | Pork chops, Broccoli, Strawberries | Brought wash cloths, letter from Bishop Connelly. |
246 | 06/15/2024 | Allowed | Blueberry Pie, Teriyaki Salmon | |
247 | 06/18/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu, Raspberry Pie | |
248 | 06/20/2024 | Allowed | Lamb, Salad, Cherry Pie | |
249 | 06/21/2024 | Allowed | Salad, Cherry Pie | |
250 | 06/22/2024 | Allowed | Steak and Salad | |
251 | 06/25/2024 | Allowed | Spaghetti sauce, Smoked salmon cheese platters, capers, toast | |
252 | 06/27/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, fresh sauce | An.(Head of Admissions): “Thrilled taking Linda outside.” |
253 | 06/28/2024 | Allowed | Sauce w. meatballs, Avocado salad | |
254 | 06/29/2024 | Allowed | Salad, Apple Pie | |
255 | 07/01/2024 | Allowed | Endive salad, apple pie | |
256 | 07/03/2024 | Allowed | Eggplant sauce and farfelle, Glazed pears | |
257 | 07/04/2024 | Allowed | Pork loin, strawberry pie, potatoes | |
258 | 07/09/2024 | Allowed | Beef Wellington, Fig Tort | Linda’s ID card needs renewal. |
259 | 07/10/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, Orange Marmalade cookies, fig tort | |
260 | 07/13/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, Meatballs, cookies | Carol’s car accident. |
261 | 07/16/2024 | Allowed | Chicken and Rice, Banana bread, whipped cream, homemade Cherry Jam | |
262 | 07/18/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, Strawberry Pie | Sent card to Richard and Glenna. Carol: fungal patches. |
263 | 07/20-21/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu, Caprese Salad | |
264 | 07/22/2024 | Allowed | Asparagus w. shrimp, Sweet and Lo | |
265 | 07/26/2024 | Allowed | Pasta, caprese salad, candied walnuts | Ashley has appendicitis. |
266 | 07/29/2024 | Allowed | Shrimp, Poka, Sturgeon | |
267 | 07/30/2024 | Allowed | Salad, Pie, ice cream | Ben’s mother’s sister died. Julie hurt knee. |
268 | 08/01/2024 | Allowed | Salad and Chutney | |
269 | 08/02/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | Un-opened bottle of vodka unknowingly in bag, brought to car. |
270 | 08/05/2024 | Allowed | None | Not sure if saw Linda. |
271 | 08/06/2024 | Allowed | Milano Pizza | Brought new chair for Linda. |
272 | 08/07/2024 | Allowed | Farfelle & sauce | Linda’s glasses ready. |
273 | 08/08/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and Clams | |
274 | 08/09/2024 | Denied | None | Turned away at door, no notice, per guardian’s direction. Told cannot bring bag. Left silently. |
275 | 08/12/2024 | Denied | Cake, clams | Turned away on Linda’s birthday with cake, presents, balloon. T.(Head of Nursing) cited “lockdown.” |
276 | 08/18/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | Visits resume. Labeled Linda’s clothes. Fed squirrels and birds. |
277 | 08/20/2024 | Allowed | Pork Loin, glazed carrots, saffron rice | PT. Tried to fix up makeup bag Carol sent. |
278 | 08/21/2024 | Allowed | Lasagne and bread | New table fits perfect. PT, fence walk, fed squirrels and birds. |
279 | 08/23/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and clams | Walked fence. Fed animals. |
280 | 08/24/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and red sauce | |
281 | 08/26-27/2024 | Allowed | Crab cakes, Bot Choi w. feta and fire-roasted peppers | PT. |
282 | 08/27/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and cabbage salad | |
283 | 08/28/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and two types of salad | |
284 | 08/29/2024 | Allowed | McDonalds | |
285 | 08/30/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu | |
286 | 08/31/2024 | Allowed | Shared apple turnovers, Pastry chicken breast, Penne side dish | |
287 | 09/01/2024 | Allowed | Fettucine Shrimp Scampi | |
288 | 09/02/2024 | Allowed | Fig turnovers and salad | |
289 | 09/03/2024 | Allowed | Chicken salad and fig jam | |
290 | 09/04/2024 | Allowed | Sauce and Penne, Blueberry strudel | |
291 | 09/05/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
292 | 09/06/2024 | Allowed | Mini-meatloaf, faux crab w. lion head mushrooms | |
293 | 09/07/2024 | Allowed | Lamb legs, mini potatoes, Greek salad | |
294 | 09/08/2024 | Allowed | Farfelle and clams, raspberries | |
295 | 09/09/2024 | Allowed | Pasta w. fresh sauce | |
296 | 09/10/2024 | Allowed | Baba Ganoush, guacamole, Tuna sandwich | |
297 | 09/11/2024 | Allowed | Eggplant parmesan, raspberries, cookies | |
298 | 09/12/2024 | Allowed | Baked clam shells, tomato garlic salad with capers | |
299 | 09/13/2024 | Allowed | Half rack of pork loin ribs and buttermilk buns | |
300 | 09/14/2024 | Allowed | Pork Loin, penne with sauce | |
301 | 09/15/2024 | Allowed | Homemade Pizza | |
302 | 09/16/2024 | Allowed | Homemade tomato soup, grilled cheese sandwiches | |
303 | 09/17/2024 | Allowed | Eggplant parmesan, sauted spinach | |
304 | 09/18/2024 | Allowed | Penne and sauce | |
305 | 09/19/2024 | Allowed | Sauted chicken tofu, wilted salad | |
306 | 09/20/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
307 | 09/21/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu | |
308 | 09/22/2024 | Allowed | Stuffed Pork Chops | |
309 | 09/23/2024 | Allowed | Skillet corn w. butter, Penne w. pepper sauce | |
310 | 09/24/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
311 | 09/25/2024 | Allowed | Pork and Meat meatballs, apple turnover | |
312 | 09/26/2024 | Allowed | Dates wrapped in bacon, banana bread | |
313 | 09/27/2024 | Allowed | Stuffed clams, Frozen strawberries | |
314 | 09/28/2024 | Allowed | Pizza from Milanos | |
315 | 09/29/2024 | Allowed | Lamb shanks | |
316 | 09/30/2024 | Allowed | McDonalds | |
317 | 10/01/2024 | Allowed | Eggplant Parmesan, Banana bread, Mushroom soup | |
318 | 10/02/2024 | Allowed | Sushi | |
319 | 10/03/2024 | Allowed | NY Strip Steak | |
320 | 10/04/2024 | Allowed | Penne w. sauce, meatballs | |
321 | 10/05/2024 | Allowed | Leftovers | |
322 | 10/06/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
323 | 10/07/2024 | Allowed | Penne w. sauce, Deconstructed manicotti, Blueberry Bread | |
324 | 10/08/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu, Mashed Potatoes | |
325 | 10/09/2024 | Allowed | Grilled Cheese w. Homemade Tomato Soup, Plum Pastry | |
326 | 10/10/2024 | Allowed | Shrimp in garlic sauce, Sauted spinach | |
327 | 10/11/2024 | Allowed | BLT and leftovers | |
328 | 10/12/2024 | Allowed | Mushroom soup, Farfelle w. sausage sauce | |
329 | 10/13/2024 | Allowed | Meat loaf, apple turnover | |
330 | 10/14/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
331 | 10/15/2024 | Allowed | Homemade Pizza | |
332 | 10/16/2024 | Allowed | Penne and sauce, Spaghetti sandwich | |
333 | 10/17/2024 | Allowed | NY strip, Potatoes, Onion, Salad | |
334 | 10/18/2024 | Allowed | Chicken breast Wellington, Salad | |
335 | 10/19/2024 | Allowed | Farfelle w. eggplant sauce | |
336 | 10/20/2024 | Allowed | Pork chop and red eye gravy, Fire roasted peppers, potatoes and tomatoes | |
337 | 10/21/2024 | Allowed | McDonald | |
338 | 10/22/2024 | Allowed | Salmon w. garlic and butter, saffron rice, salad | |
339 | 10/23/2024 | Allowed | Penne w. eggplant, mushroom sauce | |
340 | 10/24/2024 | Allowed | Fried drumsticks and waffles | |
341 | 10/25/2024 | Allowed | Pastry wrapped chicken Cordon Bleu | |
342 | 10/26/2024 | Allowed | Pizza from Milanos | |
343 | 10/27/2024 | Allowed | Leftovers | |
344 | 10/28/2024 | Allowed | Mini-farfelle w. sauce, Salad w. grapes and raspberries | |
345 | 10/29/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
346 | 10/30/2024 | Allowed | Meatball sandwich | |
347 | 10/31/2024 | Allowed | Homemade Pizza and Banana bread | |
348 | 11/01/2024 | Allowed | Macaroni w. cheese and ham | |
349 | 11/02/2024 | Allowed | Pan fried catfish, bagel and cream, salad, blueberries | |
350 | 11/03/2024 | Allowed | Mushroom soup, Chicken salad | |
351 | 11/04/2024 | Allowed | Crab cakes, Plum dessert | |
352 | 11/05/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and pasta sandwich, gatorade | |
353 | 11/06/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
354 | 11/07/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu, Salad | |
355 | 11/08/2024 | Allowed | Manicotti, grapes | |
356 | 11/09/2024 | Allowed | Pork chops w. gravy, banana bread | |
357 | 11/10/2024 | Allowed | Manicotti pasta | |
358 | 11/11/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
359 | 11/12/2024 | Allowed | Celery soup and chicken salad | |
360 | 11/13/2024 | Allowed | Pizza and cookies | |
361 | 11/14/2024 | Allowed | Catfish, salad, garlic rolls, banana bread | |
362 | 11/15/2024 | Allowed | Tomato soup, grilled cheese, homemade chocolate chip cookies | |
363 | 11/16/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, Pasta, and Salad | |
364 | 11/17/2024 | Allowed | Lamb chop, Brussel sprouts, black barley | |
365 | 11/18/2024 | Allowed | Ham and Cheese sandwich | |
366 | 11/19/2024 | Allowed | Penne and sauce, blueberries w. risotto and honey | |
367 | 11/20/2024 | Allowed | Mac and cheese, Pecan Pie | |
368 | 11/21/2024 | Allowed | Bagels and cream cheese, homemade tomato-vegetable soup | |
369 | 11/22/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu, glazed carrots w. brown sugar | |
370 | 11/23/2024 | Allowed | Leg of lamb, rosemary roasted potatoes, Greek salad | |
371 | 11/24/2024 | Allowed | Guacamole, banana bread, raspberries | |
372 | 11/25/2024 | Allowed | Penne and sauce, sauted spinach, raspberries | |
373 | 11/26/2024 | Allowed | Spinach w. garlic and olive oil | |
374 | 11/27/2024 | No Visit | None | |
375 | 11/28/2024 | Allowed | Turkey w. all fixings | |
376 | 11/29/2024 | Allowed | Turkey sandwich and pumpkin pie | |
377 | 11/30/2024 | Allowed | Pasta w. sauce, Salad, Raspberries | |
378 | 12/01/2024 | Allowed | Turkey soup, stuffing, cheesecake, raspberries w. goat cheese | |
379 | 12/02/2024 | No Visit | None | |
380 | 12/03/2024 | Allowed | Tacos from Margarehta Restaurant | |
381 | 12/04/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
382 | 12/05/2024 | Allowed | Pasta w. homemade sauce | |
383 | 12/06/2024 | Allowed | Meatballs, sauce, bagel w. cream cheese | |
384 | 12/07/2024 | No Visit | None | |
385 | 12/08/2024 | Allowed | Chicken sauce and Pasta | |
386 | 12/09/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
387 | 12/10/2024 | Allowed | Sirloin steak, homemade apple butter | |
388 | 12/11/2024 | Allowed | Farfelle w. chicken sauce | |
389 | 12/12/2024 | Allowed | Chicken enchiladas from Margarehta Restaurant | |
390 | 12/13/2024 | Allowed | Baked clams w. shrimp | |
391 | 12/14/2024 | Allowed | Fresh chicken salad | |
392 | 12/15/2024 | Allowed | Michellena’s mac and cheese | |
393 | 12/16/2024 | Allowed | Pan seared pork chops, fire roasted red onions | |
394 | 12/17/2024 | Allowed | Mac and Cheese | |
395 | 12/18/2024 | Allowed | Pasta and sauce | |
396 | 12/19/2024 | Allowed | Meatball sandwich | |
397 | 12/20/2024 | Allowed | Burger King | |
398 | 12/21/2024 | Allowed | Beef Stew | |
399 | 12/23/2024 | Allowed | Fire roasted carrots, shallots, onions, and stew | |
400 | 12/24/2024 | Allowed | Homemade Pizza | |
401 | 12/25/2024 | Allowed | Duck ala Orange | |
402 | 12/26/2024 | No Visit | None | |
403 | 12/27/2024 | Allowed | Duck sandwich and root vegetables | |
404 | 12/28/2024 | Allowed | Beef stew, carrots, sweet potatoes | |
405 | 12/29/2024 | Allowed | Penne w. chicken sauce, sweet potatoes | |
406 | 12/30/2024 | Allowed | Chicken Salad | |
407 | 12/31/2024 | Allowed | Lobster Dinner |
Visit | Date | Status | Food Items Brought | Notes |
---|---|---|---|---|
408 | 01/01/2025 | Allowed | Lobster, ravioli, Orange, grape, walnut salad | |
409 | 01/02/2025 | No Visit | None | |
410 | 01/03/2025 | Allowed | Pasta | |
411 | 01/04/2025 | Allowed | Tomato soup and grilled cheese | |
412 | 01/05/2025 | Allowed | Mac and cheese w. hamburger-Michellena’s | |
413 | 01/06/2025 | No Visit | None | |
414 | 01/07/2025 | Allowed | Pasta and sauce | |
415 | 01/08/2025 | No Visit | None | |
416 | 01/09/2025 | No Visit | None | |
417 | 01/10/2025 | No Visit | None | |
418 | 01/11/2025 | Allowed | Grilled Cheese and Tomato Sauce | |
419 | 01/12/2025 | Allowed | Pasta and Salad | |
420 | 01/13/2025 | No Visit | None | |
421 | 01/14/2025 | Allowed | Meatballs and Pasta | |
422 | 01/15/2025 | No Visit | None | |
423 | 01/16/2025 | Allowed | Pasta and Coffee | |
424 | 01/17/2025 | No Visit | None | |
425 | 01/18/2025 | Allowed | Turkey and Swiss sandwich | |
426 | 01/19/2025 | Allowed | Chicken Cordon Bleu | |
427 | 01/20/2025 | Allowed | Homemade Pizza | |
428 | 01/21/2025 | Allowed | Homemade Mexican Fiesta | |
429 | 01/22/2025 | Allowed | Turkey Sandwiches | Linda walked to bathroom with Steven. |
430 | 01/23/2025 | Allowed | Roast beef sandwiches | |
431 | 01/24/2025 | Allowed | Pork Chops | |
432 | 01/25/2025 | Allowed | Leftover pork chop sandwiches | |
433 | 01/26/2025 | Allowed | Penne and Sauce | |
434 | 01/27/2025 | Allowed | Roast beef sandwiches and salad | |
435 | 01/28/2025 | Allowed | Grilled cheese, tomato soup, strawberries w. whipped cream | |
436 | 01/29/2025 | Allowed | Farfelle w. meat sauce, Italian salad, Brioche w. butter | |
437 | 01/30/2025 | Banned | None | Barred, T.(Head of Nursing) removed Linda’s Google Home. Linda upset, felt isolated. |
438 | 02/01/2025 | Delivered | Card, Brace | Delivered items, no visit. |
439 | 02/02/2025 | Delivered | Pasta, Chips and Dip, Gatorade | Delivered items, no visit. |
440 | 02/03/2025 | Delivered | Runza, Chips, Dip, Avocado, frozen Gatorade | Delivered items, no visit. |
441 | 02/04/2025 | No Delivery | None | |
442 | 02/05/2025 | Delivered | Meatballs, Pasta, Salad | Delivered items, no visit. |
443 | 02/06/2025 | No Delivery | None | |
444 | 02/07/2025 | Banned | None | Banned, no deliveries per guardian. |
445 | 02/08/2025–04/07/2025 | Banned | None | 68-day visitation ban. |
446 | 04/08/2025 | Denied | Burger King, soda | Entry blocked, no court order; food refused. T.(Head of Nursing) and J.(Transportation) intercepted, Steven felt embarrassed. |
447 | 04/10/2025 | Allowed (2.5 hrs) | Starry soda, DoorDash order (rejected) | Water bottle dispute; Linda’s distress. Provided bathroom assistance, denture care, SLUMS test (score 28). Linda cried about room 509. |
448 | 04/11/2025 | Allowed (3.0 hrs) | Snacks, 20 Sprite cans (from Carol) | Garbage bags dispute; Linda’s weakness, trembling. Provided bathroom assistance, PT (1006 steps), denture care. |
449 | 04/12/2025 | Denied | None | Visitation barred over water bottle. Nurse Linda cited Head Nurse Carla. Linda later cried, said, “I have no sister.” |
450 | 04/13/2025 | Phone | None | Visitation barred; Linda isolated, sad. Reported discomfort in room 509. Prayed multiple times. |
451 | 04/14/2025 | Phone and video | None | Suspected TIA; slurred speech, smile droop. Linda reported pain, fatigue. Staff response inadequate. |
452 | 04/15/2025 | Phone | None | Face droop, confusion; possible TIA. Linda lethargic, fumbling phone. Contacted HAVOCA, RAINN for therapy. |
453 | 04/16/2025 | Phone | None | Linda depressed, sore, skipped PT. Poor room conditions. Felt better after shower, requested animal print sheets. |
454 | 04/17/2025 | Phone | None | Linda stronger but sleepless, depressed. Took Trazodone, requested sheet change. Trazodone timing concerning. |
455 | 04/18/2025 | Phone | None | Hard night; waited over 1 hr for bathroom, felt dismissed. Linda completed 1200 PT steps. New judge order for April 19 visit. |
456 | 04/19/2025 | Allowed (2.1 hrs) | Starbucks ($4.50), chips ($1.75) | Suspected TIA; neglected room, hostile staff. Provided bathroom assistance, changed sheets, reviewed legal papers. Linda subdued, slurred speech, said she was “beat up.” |
457 | 04/20/2025 | Allowed (1.7 hrs) | Starbucks ($4.25) | Linda lethargic, missed shower. Provided bathroom (2x), denture care, cleaned room. Hostile environment, bare-minimum care. |
458 | 04/21/2025 | Allowed (1.1 hrs) | Starbucks ($4.25) | Linda improving post-TIA. Provided bathroom, straightened room, went outside. Hostile environment, uncomfortable room. |
459 | 04/22/2025 | Allowed (1.4 hrs) | Starbucks ($4.25) | Cleaning supplies, air freshener confiscated by Nurse Linda, Naomi. Provided bathroom (2x), went outside. Naomi showed animosity. |
460 | 04/23/2025 | Allowed (2.0 hrs) | Starbucks ($4.25) | Hostile environment; Linda’s mood improving, smile better. Provided bathroom (2x), put up photo montage. Mary fell, staff slow to respond. |
461 | 04/24/2025 | Allowed (2.0 hrs) | Store-bought pizza, breadsticks (by Robert), Starbucks ($4.25) | Pizza confiscated by T.(Head of Nursing); harassment, Robert reported theft to police. Provided bathroom (2x), denture care, discussed Bible. Linda’s smile improves, but weak arm persists. |
These filings in Douglas County Probate Court (PR 22-1652) seek justice for Linda Marie Lefebvre, addressing nursing home violations by Prestige Care Center and guardianship issues with Carol Toto. They are supported by daily visit logs (see Daily Visits).
These filings highlight violations like denied church access and withheld care, as documented in our Daily Visits.
Nursing homes, poorhouses, workhouses, almshouses—these “charitable” enterprises blur the line between gift and grift. Originating in England with Henry VIII’s monastery dissolution (1534–1538), they’ve long been plagued by abuse, as Charles Dickens’ Oliver Twist and reformers like Richard Oastler exposed. The American Way of “doing good by doing well” thrives on public money, fueling corruption.
English Whig-Tory debates echo today’s Democrat-Republican divide:
The 1935 Social Security Act, opposed by Republicans and the AMA, birthed policies like Medicare/Medicaid (1965) and the 2010 ACA. The 1950 Amendments (Public Law 81-734) were the industry’s “moon shot,” introducing vendor payments that grew nursing homes to 500,000 residents by 1950. Banning Old-Age Assistance to poorhouses, they shifted care to private facilities.
David Riesman’s The Lonely Crowd (1950) explains this: suburbanization led families to trust “experts” for elder care. But this faith faltered during COVID-19, with mismanagement killing 209,000 residents. Mary Adelaide Mendelson’s 1974 Tender Loving Greed warned of abuses—starvation, fraud—yet lessons fade. Both parties take nursing home lobby funds (AHCA’s $111M in 2021). Nothing to see here, right?
COVID-19 exposed nursing home grift, with 209,000 deaths (12% of residents) by 2022. New York’s 2020 scandal—50% underreported deaths, 9,000 forced COVID-positive admissions—set the stage. Nebraska’s 2023 receivership showed similar flaws. CMS spends $147–153B annually (2025): $135B for 1.6M nursing home residents, $12–18B for 850,000 assisted living residents. Nebraska’s $1–2B, boosted by a 2024 $23M provider tax, fuels operators like Ephram “Mordy” Lahasky, whose 20–25 facilities earn $50–100M yearly through the “syndicate” model: cutting staff, falsifying records, and diverting funds. Media neglect leaves families in “information poverty,” unaware of risks.
Nebraska’s 192 nursing homes, serving ~10,000 residents, mirror national issues. The 2023 receivership of 21 facilities, due to Skyline Healthcare’s payroll failure, included Lahasky’s Broken Bow and Cozad, with four facing closure. Prestige Care Center of Plattsmouth, another Lahasky facility, faced 2025 allegations of denying religious services and visitation. Nebraska’s 19% CMS staffing compliance, low Medicaid rates (0.58 ratio), and CON laws enable Lahasky’s neglect, unreported nationally due to Republican-led oversight leniency.
The Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) finalized a rule on April 22, 2024, establishing the first federal minimum staffing standards for nursing homes participating in Medicare and Medicaid. This rule, part of the Biden-Harris Administration’s nursing home reform initiative, aims to improve care quality for 1.2 million residents but has sparked significant controversy, particularly among Republicans and industry groups.
The CMS rule, published in the Federal Register on May 10, 2024, sets three core requirements for long-term care (LTC) facilities:
Implementation is phased: urban facilities must comply with staffing levels by May 2026, while rural facilities have until May 2027, with RN and aide HPRD requirements delayed until 2029. CMS estimates 79% of nursing homes will need to increase staffing to comply, exceeding current standards in all 50 states. Noncompliance may lead to penalties, including terminated provider agreements or denied payments.
Republicans, concerned about the rule’s impact on rural nursing homes, have introduced legislation to block its implementation:
The opposition reflects broader concerns about balancing care quality with practical workforce constraints, particularly in underserved regions.
The rule emerged from President Biden’s nursing home reform initiative, announced during his February 2022 State of the Union address. The initiative responded to widespread care quality issues exposed by the COVID-19 pandemic, which caused unprecedented illness and death in nursing homes. Biden pledged to establish minimum staffing standards based on new research to ensure safe, dignified care for residents.
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), through CMS, developed the rule as part of a multi-faceted approach to improve long-term care. The proposed rule was issued on September 1, 2023, following extensive stakeholder engagement, and finalized in April 2024 after receiving over 46,000 public comments.
CMS’s staffing standards were informed by a robust evidence base:
The rule’s 3.48 HPRD standard balances care quality with workforce realities, acknowledging the sector’s recovery from pandemic-related challenges.
Opposition to the rule is led by industry groups and supported by some congressional members:
Resident and family advocates, however, argue the rule is too weak, citing persistent substandard care due to inadequate staffing.
Nursing home staffing regulations have evolved over decades:
The 2024 rule addresses a historical gap but faces challenges similar to past efforts, balancing care quality with operational feasibility.
To address staffing shortages, CMS has proposed:
These efforts aim to mitigate the rule’s impact, but critics argue they are insufficient without broader workforce solutions.
Stakeholder | Position | Key Argument |
---|---|---|
CMS/Biden Admin | Supports rule | Higher staffing improves care quality and resident safety. |
AHCA/AHA | Opposes rule | Unfunded mandate risks closures and worsens shortages. |
Republicans (e.g., Fischer) | Seeks to block rule | Protects rural access by preventing closures due to staffing shortages. |
Resident Advocates | Supports rule but wants stronger standards | Current standards are insufficient to address substandard care. |
The CMS nursing home staffing rule is a landmark effort to improve care quality, rooted in decades of advocacy and intensified by the COVID-19 crisis. Supported by research linking staffing to better outcomes, it faces opposition from industry groups and Republicans who fear reduced care access, particularly in rural areas. The Protecting Rural Seniors’ Access to Care Act reflects these concerns, proposing to delay the rule and study workforce challenges. The debate underscores the complex balance between ensuring high-quality care and maintaining access in a strained healthcare system.
Nursing homes have a long history of balancing care and profit, with recent efforts like the CMS staffing rule aiming to ensure quality care. However, opposition from Republicans, particularly in rural states like Nebraska, reflects concerns about access versus quality.
The Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) finalized a rule in April 2024 requiring nursing homes to provide 3.48 hours of nursing care per resident per day, including 0.55 hours from RNs and 2.45 hours from nurse aides, plus a 24/7 RN presence. Implementation phases include:
Republicans, led by Senator Fischer, introduced S. 3410 to block this, arguing it could force rural nursing home closures due to staffing shortages, potentially reducing care access.
In Nebraska, Ephram "Mordy" Lahasky’s nursing homes, like Broken Bow and Cozad, faced receivership in 2023 due to payroll failures, with allegations of neglect and fraud. The CMS rule aims to address understaffing, a core issue in these scandals, but opposition may protect operators benefiting from current lax standards.
Nursing homes trace their origins to 16th-century England, following Henry VIII’s dissolution of monasteries (1534–1538), which led to the creation of poorhouses and workhouses. These institutions, often criticized for abuse, were depicted in Charles Dickens’ Oliver Twist and challenged by reformers like Richard Oastler. In the U.S., the 1950 Amendments to the Social Security Act (Public Law 81-734) marked a turning point, introducing vendor payments that expanded nursing homes to 500,000 residents by 1950, shifting care from families to private facilities.
The 1935 Social Security Act, opposed by Republicans and the AMA, birthed Medicare and Medicaid in 1965, further fueling the industry. The 2010 Affordable Care Act (ACA) expanded access, but tenses between central and local control, echoing English Whig-Tory debates, persist. Democrats push federal oversight, like the 2023 CMS mandates, while Republicans, such as Nebraska’s 2025 Legislative Bill 437, favor state control, reflecting historical divides over humanity versus deterrence, moral versus economic factors, and cost versus care.
The COVID-19 pandemic exposed systemic failures, with 209,000 nursing home resident deaths by 2022, representing 12% of residents. New York’s 2020 scandal, underreporting 50% of deaths and forcing 9,000 COVID-positive admissions, highlighted mismanagement. Nationally, CMS spends $147–153 billion annually (2025 estimate), with $135 billion for 1.6 million nursing home residents and $12–18 billion for 850,000 assisted living residents. Nebraska’s $1–2 billion share, boosted by a 2024 $23M provider tax, fuels operators like Lahasky, whose 20–25 facilities earn $50–100M yearly through understaffing and fraud.
Mary Adelaide Mendelson’s 1974 Tender Loving Greed warned of starvation and fraud, yet lessons fade, with both parties taking nursing home lobby funds, such as AHCA’s $111M in 2021. Media neglect leaves families in “information poverty,” unaware of risks, exacerbating care deserts in rural areas.
Nebraska’s 192 nursing homes serve approximately 10,000 residents, but systemic issues persist, particularly in facilities operated by Ephram “Mordy” Lahasky. The 2023 receivership of 21 facilities, triggered by Skyline Healthcare’s payroll collapse, included Lahasky’s Broken Bow and Cozad, with four facilities facing closure risks. Prestige Care Center in Plattsmouth, acquired by Lahasky in 2019, faced 2025 allegations of neglect, denial of religious services, and visitation restrictions, with CMS documents hinting at cover-ups.
The CMS staffing rule, while a step toward addressing understaffing, faces resistance that may perpetuate the status quo, benefiting operators like Lahasky. Nebraska’s scandals reflect national trends: understaffing, inadequate oversight, and media silence. The tension between federal mandates and state autonomy, coupled with industry lobbying, continues to shape the nursing home landscape, often at the expense of vulnerable residents.
Part III synthesizes the historical and current challenges in nursing homes, connecting Nebraska’s scandals to broader policy debates. The CMS staffing rule represents progress, but opposition from Republicans and industry groups highlights the difficulty of reforming a profit-driven system. Families remain in “information poverty,” relying on limited resources like CMS’s Nursing Home Compare to navigate care options, while rural areas face growing care deserts.
Addressing nursing home issues requires a multi-faceted approach, combining advocacy, policy reform, and community engagement. This section outlines actionable solutions to combat grift, improve care quality, and empower families, with a focus on Nebraska’s challenges and broader national implications.
Advocacy is critical to exposing nursing home abuses and driving change. Platforms like NursingHomeRhymes.com, which blends poetry, journalism, and investigative reporting, offer innovative ways to raise awareness.
Policy changes are essential to address systemic issues exposed by Nebraska’s scandals and the CMS staffing rule debate.
Families must be equipped with tools to navigate the “information poverty” caused by media neglect and flawed CMS ratings.
Nebraska’s unique challenges, including rural care deserts and operators like Lahasky, require targeted interventions.
NursingHomeRhymes.com, with its unique blend of poetry, journalism, and advocacy, can lead the charge. By integrating visitation logs, podcast episodes (e.g., Nursing Home Rhymes: Episode 1), and policy summaries, the site can:
Part IV emphasizes that reforming nursing homes requires collective action. Advocacy through platforms like NursingHomeRhymes.com, paired with policy reforms and family empowerment, can address Nebraska’s scandals and national grift. By amplifying voices, improving transparency, and countering industry influence, we can shift the balance from profit to care, ensuring dignity for residents like those at Prestige Care Center.
We all find ourselves in situations that seem overwhelming. I frequently resort to prayer and poetry to get through the hard times. Poetry can say something to us that would otherwise be elusive. Here are some of the sentiments driving the Nursing Home Rhymes project.
These poems, featured in our podcast and newsletter, capture the heart of Linda Marie Lefebvre’s fight in PR 22-1652 against nursing home violations, including denied church access and withheld care. From anonymous cries to timeless reflections, they echo our real-time visit logs (see Daily Visits).
What do you see, nurses, what do you see?
A crabby old woman, not very wise,
Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes,
Who dribbles her food and makes no reply,
When you say in a loud voice — “I do wish you’d try.”
So open your eyes, nurses, open and see,
Not a crabby old woman, look closer, nurses — see ME!
By Anonymous, found among an elderly lady’s possessions in a hospital, as cited in the “Assessment and Alternatives Help Guide” by the Colorado Foundation for Medical Care. Believed to be in the public domain due to unknown authorship. Documented in our Daily Visits.
All are limitory, but each has her own
nuance of damage. The elite can dress and decent themselves,
are ambulant with a single stick, adroit
to read a book all through, or play the slow movements of
easy sonatas. (Yet, perhaps their very
carnal freedom is their spirit's bane: intelligent
of what has happened and why, they are obnoxious
to a glum beyond tears.) Then come those on wheels, the average
majority, who endure T.V. and, led by
lenient therapists, do community-singing, then
the loners, muttE.(Physical Therapy)g in Limbo, and last
the terminally incompetent, as improvident,
unspeakable, impeccable as the plants
they parody. (Plants may sweat profusely but never
sully themselves.)
One tie, though, unites them: all
appeared when the world, though much was awry there, was more
spacious, more comely to look at, its Old Ones
with an audience and secular station. Then a child,
in dismay with Mamma, could refuge with Gran
to be revalued and told a story. As of now,
we all know what to expect, but their generation
is the first to fade like this, not at home but assigned
to a numbered frequent ward, stowed out of conscience
as unpopular luggage.
As I ride the subway
to spend half-an-hour with one, I revisage
who she was in the pomp and sumpture of her hey-day,
when week-end visits were a presumptive joy,
not a good work. Am I cold to wish for a speedy
painless dormition, pray, as I know she prays,
that God or Nature will abrupt her earthly function?
By W.H. Auden (1907–1973), reflecting Linda’s isolation at Prestige, as documented in our Daily Visits. © Estate of W.H. Auden. Quoted under fair use for advocacy purposes in PR 22-1652.
Welcome to you
who have managed to get here.
It’s been a terrible trip;
you should be happy you have survived it.
Statistics prove that not many do.
You would like a bath, a hot meal,
a good night’s sleep. Some of you
need medical attention.
None of this is available.
These things have always been
in short supply; now
they are impossible to obtain.
This is not
a temporary situation;
it is permanent.
Our condolences on your disappointment.
It is not our responsibility
everything you have heard about this place
is false. It is not our fault
you have been deceived,
ruined your health getting here.
For reasons beyond our control
there is no vehicle out.
By Naomi Lazard, from Ordinances (1984), capturing the betrayal of care at Prestige, as documented in our Daily Visits. © Naomi Lazard. Quoted under fair use for advocacy purposes in PR 22-1652.
Because I could not stop for Death –
He kindly stopped for me –
The Carriage held but just Ourselves –
And Immortality.
We slowly drove – He knew no haste
And I had put away
My labor and my leisure too,
For His Civility –
We passed the School, where Children strove
At Recess – in the Ring –
We passed the Fields of Gazing Grain –
We passed the Setting Sun –
Or rather – He passed Us –
The Dews drew quivE.(Physical Therapy)g and Chill –
For only Gossamer, my Gown –
My Tippet – only Tulle –
We paused before a House that seemed
A Swelling of the Ground –
The Roof was scarcely visible –
The Cornice – in the Ground –
Since then – 'tis Centuries – and yet
Feels shorter than the Day
I first surmised the Horses' Heads
Were toward Eternity –
By Emily Dickinson (1830–1886), reflecting Linda’s quiet dignity amidst Prestige’s neglect, as documented in our Daily Visits. Public domain.
Our fight for Linda’s justice is amplified by media exposing nursing home fraud and neglect, relevant to PR 22-1652 at Prestige Care Center.
Reach out to the Nursing Home Rhymes team to share your stories, ask questions, or support our mission. We value your input and are committed to advocating for nursing home residents.
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