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Residents: The Powerless Core

I am at my 403rd visit as of today. At the heart of the nursing home crisis are residents like my wife, Linda, confined for 25 months at Prestige Care Center, Plattsmouth, Nebraska. I visit daily, with a well-honed, structured visit of personal care, monitoring, and taking her outside or to activities. I have made her room comfortable with everything within her reach. Meanwhile, because I am a curmudgeon, the Nursing Home has placed more sanctions on me than a Russian Oligarch. Of course, I am fighting back against visitor bans, denied religious services, and blocked therapy. There are rewards and victories too: On May 1, 2025, Linda took 1,025 steps in Physical Therapy, showing resilience despite a possible TIA. Residents face neglect and reduced life expectancy, trapped by a profit-driven system. But we continue to feed the birds and squirrels and plant flowers as a tangible sign of hope.

Linda’s Victory Photo

Linda’s Victory Photo

Elderly in wheelchairs amidst flames

A somber group of elderly amidst flames, symbolizing suffE.(Physical Therapy)g.

Bullseye Diagram

The bullseye: Residents (red), Angels (white), Enablers (cyan), Syndicate (yellow), State & Fed Cash (green), Daily Visits (orange), Resources (purple).

About Nursing Home Rhymes

I’m a 71-year-old professor fighting for my wife, Linda, fueled by love and righteous anger at a greedy system. Nursing Home Rhymes, launching June 2025, blends Linda’s story with investigative journalism, inspired by Mary Adelaide Mendelson's Tender Loving Greed, David Riesman's The Lonely Crowd and a ton of research on the Nursing Home Syndicate. Linda and I are counting down to a June 30 showdown contested hearing in Douglas County--PR 22-1652. Share your stories about this developing story!

Contact: info@nursinghomerhymes.com

Learn more about resources: CareNebraska.org

Angels: Hope and Reform

Compassionate caregivers and advocates are the white layer of hope. Disability Rights of Nebraska’s 2023 report, Who’s Guarding the Guardians?, exposes guardianship abuses. Senator Wendy DeBoer pushes visitation rights bills, and Nebraska Appleseed fights Iowa nursing home atrocities. They inspire Nursing Home Rhymes to demand change.

Compassionate caregivers with halos

Compassionate caregivers with halos, offE.(Physical Therapy)g hope.

Poem by Anonymous

Poem by Anonymous

Enablers: Facility Complicity

Administrators and guardians enable neglect at places like Prestige, enforcing restrictive policies and aligning with profit-driven owners. My May 1, 2025, visit log notes Linda’s guardian prioritizing facility interests, blocking her autonomy. These enablers perpetuate understaffing and care failures, shielding the syndicate’s greed.

Faceless administrators in shadows

Faceless administrators in shadows, symbolizing complicity.

Old Peoples Home

W.H. Auden

Syndicate: Profit Over Care

Owners like Ephram “Mordy” Lahasky and Yisroel Kaplan, linked to Prestige, use shell companies to siphon Medicaid and Medicare funds, as exposed by Mary Mendelson’s 1974 book, Tender Loving Greed. This “nursing home syndicate” prioritizes profit, leading to neglect and reduced resident life expectancy, a crisis Nursing Home Rhymes will uncover.

Predatory sharks circling gold coins

Predatory sharks circling gold coins, representing greed.

Emily Dickinson

Emily Dickinson

The Syndicate’s Web of Greed

At the heart of this corrupt empire sits Ephram "Mordy" Lahasky, a slick operator whose tentacles stretch from Prestige Care Center to fraud-ridden facilities nationwide. With Yisroel Kaplan, Sam Halper, Michael Konig, and Steven Krausman, Lahasky’s syndicate rakes in billions while residents like Linda Marie Lefebvre endure neglect, abuse, and stolen dignity.

Greed’s Human Cost

Lahasky’s empire of greed leaves a trail of suffE.(Physical Therapy)g: 70-day visitation bans, denied therapy, and blocked church access at Prestige, as documented in Linda’s visit logs. This isn’t just money stolen—it’s lives diminished, families shattered, and justice mocked. Join Nursing Home Rhymes to smash this syndicate!

Predatory sharks circling gold coins

The Lahasky Syndicate

Emily Dickinson

Web of Greed

See the evidence in Linda’s visit logs and join the fight against the nursing home syndicate.

State & Fed Cash: Misallocated Funds

Public funds meant for care are misdirected by lax oversight from CMS and Nebraska DHHS, fueling the syndicate. Prestige’s CMS violations, noted in my court filings, show how federal and state cash enables exploitation. Families should check Nursing Home Compare for ownership transparency.

Dollar bills diverted by corrupt hands

Stacks of dollar bills diverted by corrupt hands.

Ordinace on Arrival

Naomi Lazard

Daily Visits: A Labor of Love

As of today, I’ve made my 403rd visit to Linda at Prestige Care Center, Plattsmouth. Each day, I provide personal care, monitor her well-being, and take her outside for activities like feeding birds and squirrels or planting flowers. I’ve arranged her room for comfort, with everything within reach, despite facing sanctions from the facility for my advocacy. These visits are a testament to love and resilience, fighting against visitor bans and care restrictions.

Visitation Notes for Nursing Home Rhymes

Visitation Notes for Linda at Prestige Care Center

Visit Logs: Linda’s Journey

Daily visits to Prestige Care Center of Plattsmouth, Nebraska document Linda Marie Lefebvre’s experience, exposing violations and moments of care in PR 22-1652.

May 22, 2025 (Thursday, Visit No. 403-"BE NOT AFRAID!")

Time: 12:55PM to 3:10PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in at front desk. Asked if I had any food or drink. Inconsistent policy.
  • Strange that Prestige will not meet with me to discuss all this.
  • Knocked on Linda's door and entered.
  • Brought her to bathroom. Changed top. She needed a cleanup from previous poor job.
  • Did teeth, glasses, hair in ponytail. Perfume of the day Coco Mademoiselle. Next month we’ll get Shakira.
  • Cleaned room, fluffed bedding, straightened closet. Reminded her to ask for paper towels for bathroom.
  • Brought her outside. Stopped by PT where Linda asked E. about the feet on her wheelchair. E. said she would look for some new ones. Recommends a stop on one of the pedals to stop foot sliding. Linda appreciative.
  • Bought a Starbucks coffee ($4.25). Went outside. Temps still in 60s, but sunny and only a little breezy. Wrapped her in my jacket so she would be comfortable.
  • Had a bunch of robins feasting on the nuts we pulverized for them. A cardinal made a visit too!
  • We say to each other "God is good. God is great. All the time." In life, one must grab the fleeting beautiful moments and we discuss our journey and our spiritual journey too.
  • Spotted Father Pfeiffer walking towards us with a folder in his hands. He had the rest of the paperwork for Linda to fill out on the official "Vatican-looking" form, which she did.
  • So we are all set to get married in the Church. We just have to pick a date.
  • Spoke about faith and Linda's aunt up in Canada who was a nun. Father Pfeiffer mentions Bishop Lefebvre in France. We joked that there is even a Rue de Lefebvre in Paris. I’ve been there long ago.
  • Linda and I spoke about how we met, and how she bawled her eyes out when I first proposed. Fond memories.
  • Just to make it official, got down on my knees and asked her to marry me again. Happy she said YES!
  • Discussed how this is a beautiful moment with the wind, birdsongs, and spring smells that we should always remember.
  • We talked about how we do not know what the future holds. But we know we will hold on to each other. I told Linda if it comes to that, even if she is unable to talk, no matter what, I will still visit her daily and talk to her. We both got a little teary.
  • Went back to the room, bathroom, and situated her comfortably. Lunch had arrived… sort of a bony, scrawny piece of chicken that I tore off the meat for her so she could eat some. She went for the mashed potatoes and gravy, of course. The kitchen tries its best, we know. But she does complain and misses my home cooking, which, inexplicably, is forbidden fruit.
  • Said our prayers and kissed goodbye. Miss her already.

Observations:

On-again, off-again. Asked about food or drink. The whole surprise routine, sneaking up behind, the waiting for them to come up with a new twist on harassment, has me feeling so jumpy. The harassment is impacting my health, the quality of the visits, and Linda's care. It cannot go on. Prestige will not communicate with me. It is like a No-Man’s-Land of wary anticipation and psychological belittlement. Sad (both Linda and I agree). Sad, because this is visit No. 403 and we know this kind of mistreatment just cannot go on.

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs. Inconsistent food and drink policies violate this right.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being. Prestige’s harassment, including psychological belittlement, impacts Linda’s care and my well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.15(c)(6): Facilities must allow residents to participate in social, religious, and community activities. Prestige’s refusal to communicate and resolve conflicts hinders Linda’s quality of life.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 28-311.02: Defines harassment as a “knowing and willful course of conduct” that intimidates or threatens with no legitimate purpose. Prestige’s actions, including surprise routines and refusal to meet, meet this definition.

May 21, 2025 (Wednesedy, Visit No. 402)

Time: 2:15PM to 3:15PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in at front desk. No one there. Spooky, like something’s up?
  • Brought a large clip and put up Linda’s photo montage on her front door. Seems sturdy now.
  • Put on blue sweatshirt with zipper and took off Cornhusker sweatshirt. Today is in the 60s, but not as damp as yesterday.
  • Clothes to hamper, trash out, cleaned floor of scuff marks, arranged closet, tried to tighten wheelchair footrests but need the right tools to do that. But sure E. or M. at PT will do it. So I remind Linda to ask.
  • Apparently, Linda spoke with A. (Head of Admissions) yesterday about room 308, which is more spacious and has a view of greenery out the front. Linda was worried that it is on the main corridor where everyone goes by three times a day for meals and other activities and she felt it would be too noisy. Her choice.
  • After restroom, put on her boots and she put on perfume (Poison?). Brushed her hair with a wet brush and put in a good ponytail.
  • Bought a Starbucks coffee ($4.25, more than the cost of a wash $2.00 and dryer $1.75 for clothes, but no one sees it as a burden that I can’t bring down vanilla creamed coffee for less than $1.00!)
  • Went outside. Wrapped her in blanket. Warmed her up in the sun. Took a little stroll. Fed squirrels and birds.
  • On the way to check out our “garden,” saw that a Robin family was eating the almonds that I had crushed up small with my rubber mallet. The Momma Robin was putting crushed nuts into the beak of her baby Robin. Daddy Robin was nearby keeping a protective eye out.
  • Plants and tomato “Baballo” shooting up. Ground is moist, so only put a little water on the bamboo.
  • We talked outside. I prayed over Linda for healing and for guidance for us. We spoke about how this is just a crazy situation. It is hard to live through. But we have had many such moments in our lives and have faith. We discussed that everything that I am doing is actually a reaction to what is being done to us. There is no operating manual. We just do our best, be humble, and pray.
  • PT closed early, which Linda knew about, so it was OK. Really need to get her a regular schedule. I can’t stand the thought of her being stuck in a wheelchair with her head just hanging down.
  • Told her about the big news about United Health Care and nursing homes. On top of that, Cuomo is under pretty heavy investigation in New York, I guess about the excess COVID deaths. I am not alone. I am not alone in this. I cannot be silenced, even if there are uncomfortable truths.
  • Got her comfortable when we returned and took care of her toiletry. Fluffed up pillows and arranged her coffee on table.
  • She is looking forward to seeing Father Pfeiffer from the Church of the Holy Spirit tomorrow. He came today and she gave him our check. She loves being part of the Parish. He told her he will come tomorrow to help her fill out the rest of the marriage papers. I informed Linda that it cost over $100 to get all the requisite paperwork. But, I added “we’re getting married!” She said, “Sadie, Sadie, Married Lady,” a line from a Barbra Streisand movie.
  • Said a final prayer and said I will call her when I get home.

Observations:

No one is forcing anyone to visit my site and work product, unlike Prestige’s profit-driven propaganda that families can’t avoid when seeking care. Today’s visit, my 402nd, is the turning point—Prestige’s chilling silence, an empty front desk like a setup, fuels my fight. Spoke to Linda, and boy, is she upset—her fire in her belly belies dementia, a spark propelling survival. I’m literally shaking; this legion—lawyers, Toto, my brother-in-law, Prestige’s top tier, a GAL from a huge firm—is too much. Am I wrong? Hours posting these visits drain me, but my questions won’t be silenced. Turner and Pallesen, wielding legal might, scorn my curiosity as “scandalous” while dodging truth. Turner’s motion, ignoring my 167-page April 4th affidavit but crying over my podcast, proves I hit a nerve—her Florida lie and rushed $3,750 motion (15 hours, $250/hour) scream bias. Who’s paying her? Nursing Home Rhymes lays bare Linda’s confinement, sparked by her July 2024 disclosure of childhood molestation by her brother, which Toto buried as dementia to silence her. I reject that lie; it explains their 70-day ban on me and Linda’s life sentence. My opinions are my right—no judge can strip my First Amendment voice. Prestige, mute to me, plasters resident photos, including Linda’s and possibly deceased residents, on their site and Facebook without CMS consents, profiting with stock photos and deceptive imagery while Turner attacks my court-approved likeness use. Where are their consents? My database, the only privately accessible site for Nebraska nursing homes, bleeds my wallet to serve the public, unlike their greed. My old friend, Harvey Silverglate’s warning—three felonies daily from over-criminalization—pushes me toward a Constitutional attorney. Therapy fights my PTSD—startle reactions, dread, sweaty dreams in Arabic—but Linda’s sharper, sparked by her Shakira perfume request. Our bond defies their papers. Life’s an As the World Turns saga—regrets, foes, and all. Their whole attack on me is a Put On. A false construct. It is a false story with no feet. It will not stand! And that is my opinion. Oh, well!

References:

May 20, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 401)

Time: 11:55AM to 2:14PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in at front desk. Seems nobody asks me if I have food or drink.
  • The Judge's Order said only No Homemade food. But the rules are what they say they are on any given day.
  • Change Linda. Cool today so put on her Nebraska Cornhusker Sweatshirt. The one that commemorates the one time Nebraska beat Miami at the old Orange Bowl. Linda had attended the game and asked "What is a cornhusker?".
  • Took out trash and put dirty clothes in hamper.
  • I bought some nice transparent organizers and put her other two side tables so that she can see and easily grab stuff: chap stick, straws, pens, real cutlery, sugar and cream, phone, charger, etc..
  • Fixed her electronic photo display. Made phone charger easier to get for her.
  • Bought her a Pepsi. Would have been a great day to bring a thermos of coffee with vanilla. Her favorite. But for us, alone, it is forbidden and not allowed.
  • Both of us feel nervous and under surveillance. A nurse bursts into the room, ostensibly with medicine, for Linda's roommate who is down at lunch. A suddenly opened door triggers my PTSD and I involuntarily jump.
  • Put on Coco Mademoiselle and bought a Pepsi from the vending machine in the South dining room.
  • As I walk through the hall (to get ice water) I can feel the un-welcomeness of the environment.
  • Cool outside. Wrap Linda in her blanket. Grab a big straw from car for her Pepsi.
  • I had bought a stake for the bamboo. At the top it has a decoration that says "Bee Happy." with a Bee decoration.
  • No need to water plants today with the showers. Birds showed right up for the feed. Left some whole nuts for squirrly when he/she shows up.
  • Went back to room. Brought out custom table for her lunch (Orange Chicken) and got her comfortable.
  • Watched a little General Hospital. This week is the Nurses Ball--I guess this is National Nurse's Week.
  • We prayed for healing and guidance and the strength to forgive those who are tormenting us.
  • Put the Church donation envelope close so Linda can give it to Father Pfeiffer tomorrow.

Observations:

It feels remarkable that this is visit No. 401! What a long, strange trip it has been. (No Regurts?) Last year before the eventful call from Linda to her brother, the visits were relaxed and pleasant. I just feel brutalized. The treatment has triggered my PTSD replete with night sweats that soak the bed, startle reactions, and feelings of dread. In a hostile environment such as this, I feel like I can be attacked at any second. Linda has lost a lot of her spark after the brutal forced separation of 70 days--a forced absence without reason, but meant to inflict psychological harm upon us. Congratulations! It worked. Visit No. 401, and counting.

References:

May 19, 2025 (Monday, Visit No. )

Time: Sick Day-Steven
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • A bug got me last night. Today, I’m having chicken soup.
  • I am trying to explain the intentional infliction of emotional distress upon myself and Linda due to the facility’s restrictive practices.1

Observations:

On a sick day, I realize how much I miss Linda—it’s like an ache that goes from the heart to the stomach. σπλαγχνίζομαι (splagchnizomai)—"to be moved as to one’s bowels."(Luke 7:13) This one-day break from visiting also feels like the coiled spring of running the gauntlet of visiting Linda: almost a corporeal punishment.2 I am thankful to get weekly therapy to endure this. What is this? This bewildering and nightmarishly illogical set of invisible rules. Yeah, it is a nightmare to visit my wife. One that stresses me out to dangerous extremes for my own health.3 But today is homemade soup with Cornish hen stock, potatoes, carrots, celery, rice, and some za’atar spices with a whole clove of roasted garlic. Invisible rules: No Soup for Linda!

References:

References:

  • U.S. Constitution, First Amendment: Guarantees my right to free speech and press, including publishing Nursing Home Rhymes podcast and blog about Prestige Care Center, Dr. Wester, and others, as an investigative journalist and advocate for Linda.
  • False Claims Act, 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects my whistleblower status for reporting potential Medicare/Medicaid fraud by Prestige and UnitedHealthcare, including Dr. Wester’s billing practices and cost-cutting bonuses (Guardian, May 21, 2025).
  • Nebraska Shield Law, Neb. Rev. Stat. § 20-144: Safeguards my journalistic activities, including podcast and Reddit posts (u/mrlanguage2357), from compelled disclosure, reinforcing my right to expose Prestige’s harassment.
  • CMS Resident Rights, 42 CFR § 483.10(f): Affirms Linda’s right to receive visitors, including me as her spouse, and my right to advocate without retaliation, violated by Prestige’s 70-day forced separation and ongoing hostility.
  • Nebraska Visitation Rights, Neb. Rev. Stat. § 71-6018.01: Protects my visitation with Linda, upheld by court order (Douglas County Probate Court, April 8, 2025), against Prestige’s arbitrary bans and GAL’s motion.
  • Falwell v. Flynt, 485 U.S. 46 (1988): Supports my First Amendment right to publish critical content about public figures or entities (e.g., Prestige, Toto), even if controversial, as long as it’s not defamatory, which my podcast is not.
  • New York Times v. Sullivan, 376 U.S. 254 (1964): Protects my publications from defamation claims unless actual malice is proven, which is absent in my factual, advocacy-driven podcast.
  • Nebraska Long-Term Care Ombudsman: My report of Prestige’s harassment (e.g., Kati’s complaint, May 21, 2025) to ENOA ((402) 444-6444) invokes my advocacy rights, countering the GAL’s attempt to suppress my speech.

May 18, 2025 (Sunday, Visit No. 400)

Time: 1:30 PM to 3:50 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Not allowed to bring food or drink, as usual. Visit 400.1
  • Brought a small wooden step stool to make Linda's room more comfortable. Clips were not large enough for a photo montage. Need to get plastic organizers for the other tabletop. She still has trouble reaching items in this small room compared to how cozy her previous room was. Weeks later, I am still trying to adjust the room. This is her life for now, after all.
  • Saw pizzas being delivered to other residents.
  • But for Linda alone, discriminated against, "Es ist verboten," I guess. Someone, somewhere is happy about this discrimination.2
  • Linda had a nice shower with M. today. Shiny and clean, hair in a neat ponytail. Eternity perfume today.
  • Reapplied adhesive, cleaned teeth and glasses. She is now constipated, natural after her illness. The diet is not high-fiber at the nursing home, though they try.3
  • Set up her lunch table, and she nibbled at it. Appetite not back to normal.
  • Went outside, bought a bottle of water, a bargain at only $2.00.
  • Plants doing fine. Tied a string around the rapidly growing bamboo. We discussed getting a stake and some chicken wire for her pet tomato—Bambaloo—as she is worried about rabbits.
  • We said our prayers outside in the fragrant wind, sunshine, and brilliant greens. God is good, all the time, we say.
  • Fed birds, and on my way out, saw a squirrel eating our nuts. He looked familiar.
  • Changed her top and made her comfortable. We are both tired and weary of enduring this ugly show. The show is a "put-on" by a neglectful guardian and a corporation barely fulfilling its role as a nursing home. That’s how I see it.4
  • We discussed how there are only two sides: Linda and Steven, and Steven and Linda. The way it has always been in marriage.
  • As I drove away, my heart sank: I miss her already.
  • I saw other residents slumped in their wheelchairs, heads toward the floor as they slumbered. This cannot be Linda's future. Destiny and fate would not do that to us.

Observations:

A wonderful Sunday, partially spoiled by distant people—emotionally and geographically—who seem intent on grinding Linda and me into the dirt. Hard to endure. I guess it would make everyone happy if I stopped visiting and fighting for Linda. That is not going to happen.

References:

May 17, 2025 (Saturday, Visit No. 399)

Time: 12:30 PM to 3:30 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Upon arrival, D. at front desk asked if I had food or drink. I said, "No." They offered me a mask due to the GI outbreak. I declined, as I can’t kiss Linda with a mask. I’ll wash my hands thoroughly and take my chances. Other employees were not wearing masks.
  • Brought Linda a jewelry box with a combination lock and a heavier blanket to take her out, as it was cooler today.
  • She prefers temperatures in the 80s. We joked she was born in August in Miami, so it’s built-in.
  • She’s notably weaker from a gastrointestinal illness but got up with support.
  • Took her to the bathroom, emptied trash, moved items to the hamper, and changed sheets to a flamingo pattern. One matching pillowcase is missing.
  • Brushed her hair into a ponytail. She applied Coco Mademoiselle perfume.
  • Fixed her phone by removing an unwanted game app that disrupted functionality. Settings and volume are now correct.
  • Next month, I’ll get her a new phone, free of junk apps.
  • Bought her a Starbucks chocolate drink, her favorite ($4.25).
  • Gave her a large plastic straw from my car, as the nursing home’s straws sink in bottles.
  • It was cooler, so I positioned her in a sunny front yard area to warm her face. See photo: Linda in front yard with blanket.
  • Fed birds; wrens were noisy and territorial, guarding their nests.
  • Watered plants and discussed staking the bamboo and fencing our "baby" Babaloo, the tomato plant.
  • Planned frequent summer outings. Other mobile residents go outside for fresh air, greenery, and a change of perspective. It’s healing.
  • Brought Linda inside, changed her clothes, and set her up with lunch on the custom tray I built last year, with pretty tablecloths, napkins, and kitchen cloths.
  • She washed her face with a baby washcloth—I wash them at home—and applied face cream. Next time, we’ll use a cleansing toner I brought.
  • Linda’s weak from vomiting and diarrhea. She mentioned speaking to her sister yesterday but recalled only something about toe pads.
  • Linda said a nurse turned on her phone, disrupted by the unwanted app. The nurse used it to call her sister, Carol, despite Linda’s objection, leaving her no choice.
  • Discussed the phone issue with a nurse. Linda’s had ongoing phone problems, usually fixed by restarting when she’s not sick. The charging cord is too short, so I’ll improve access. Need a larger clip for her door’s photo montage.
  • Talked while straightening her room. Showed a new aide her wedding dress, discussing thrift shops like the closed Imaginarium, where I sourced comfort items for Linda’s room.
  • Prayed together for healing and planned for tomorrow. Photographed the GI outbreak notice: GI outbreak notice.

Observations:

Noted at 07:20 PM CDT on Saturday, May 17, 2025: Many residents, including Linda’s roommate, M., are ill with a gastrointestinal bug, causing debilitating vomiting and diarrhea. Linda’s weakness was expected, yet we had a good day. D. was gone when I left. Nursing homes aren’t designed to search visitors, and CMS likely doesn’t fund such practices. These searches are harassing and demeaning, especially in front of Linda, with staff spreading slander about me. It’s neither kind nor legal. The nurse’s coerced phone call to Linda’s sister-guardian, Carol, against Linda’s wishes, is another assault on her autonomy, flouting rules and laws. Most egregious, Prestige defies a judge’s order (Case C01 PR-22-0001652) to provide their Rule Book, a standard document other nursing homes use for visitor hours and policies. Instead, Trista Driscoll, Director of Nursing, sent a link to an 873-page CMS State Operations Manual, claiming it contains “all regulations we follow,” and refuses to discuss it, stonewalling me entirely (email exchange, April 18-22, 2025). This is a blatant “FU,” telling me I’m a piece of s___t, confirming their contempt of court and ongoing harassment while violating the very regulations they cite. As Linda’s spouse, I have rights to transparency and involvement in her care, yet Prestige arbitrarily strips these away, treating me like a defendant in Kafka’s *The Trial*—trapped in a bureaucratic nightmare with no recourse. Their actions demand accountability. Still confounded about the removal of assistive technology, i.e., the Google Home Machine, which Linda has depended on for years and is vital for her to access information. It’s like they cut off one of her limbs, akin to taking away glasses or a white cane from a blind person. That removal is just plain wrong and discriminatory, denying her essential accommodations and equal access to communication. I went to 4:00 PM Mass alone and greeted the other residents from Prestige who were attending. No one can understand why Linda cannot attend Mass. What Country are we in? Linda has asked over and over to go to Church with other residents. The "No" goes unexplained—Franz Kafka would probably understand. Other residents go every Saturday, oxygen tanks and colostomy bags and all.

References:

May 16, 2025 (Friday, Visit No.None)

Time:No Visit
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Linda experiencing gastrointestinal distress. Vomited last night. Heavy diarrhea.
  • Not running temperature. Yesterday, note on door said it was going around. Summer flu?
  • Advised her to take liquids, order a banana and rice to bind her.
  • Wait and see. She will be too weak to visit. Don’t want to get it myself.
  • Linda had somehow disabled her phone from receiving calls. I called Prestige, and they brought the phone to her. She said she had not eaten. She is weak and a little disoriented, having slept most of the day. I asked if she had requested a banana and rice; she said she wasn’t hungry. Nurse P. helped her with her cell phone—much appreciated. Linda video-called me around 7:30 PM. She can still smile, and it was so good to see her. I miss her so much it hurts. Yet, there’s nothing I can do. I am her spouse, the person on the ground, her caretaker through nearly 400 visits. Where is her Guardian? Carol Toto is responsible for Linda’s physical and mental deterioration—it must be her plan! She must be very pleased.
  • Carol Toto must be very pleased, abandoning her duties while Linda suffers (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2619(c); 42 C.F.R. § 483.10(g)(5)). Toto’s absence and failure to address Linda’s condition show dereliction of duty and willful disregard, enabling harm to a vulnerable adult (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2620(b), § 28-351; 42 C.F.R. § 483.25, § 483.12; In re Guardianship of D.J., 268 Neb. 239, 2004).
    • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2619(c): Allows guardian removal for failure to perform duties, including abandonment endangering the ward’s welfare.
    • 42 C.F.R. § 483.10(g)(5): Ensures residents’ rights to family involvement in care, violated by Toto’s absence blocking spousal participation.
    • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2620(b): Requires guardians to act in the ward’s best interests, breached by Toto’s failure to monitor Linda’s health.
    • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 28-351: Defines elder abuse as knowingly causing harm to a vulnerable adult, applicable to Toto’s neglect enabling deterioration.
    • 42 C.F.R. § 483.25: Mandates quality care to maintain residents’ well-being, violated by inaction on Linda’s condition.
    • 42 C.F.R. § 483.12: Protects residents from abuse and neglect, breached by Toto’s failure to act.
    • In re Guardianship of D.J., 268 Neb. 239, 2004: Supports guardian removal for neglect with reckless indifference, applicable to Toto’s disregard.

Observations:

I will keep checking in to see if my visit today is advisable. Probably better to wait until tomorrow. The nursing home’s environment, like a Petri dish, fosters collective illness. Frustrating part is that as a spouse, I have spousal interests, and am the de facto, on-the-ground, guardian. Yet, I am ignored and held incommunicado, greatly impacting Linda's care and health. This is just plain wrong. I cannot even call anyone at Prestige about Linda's condition. Blocked by a callous, uncaring guardian some 1700 miles away, a willing Prestige as a co-conspirator. There ought to be a law.Prestige Care Center's refusal to allow me, as Linda's devoted husband, to inquire about her health during a dangerous outbreak is not only immoral and unethical but also a profound violation of the sacred bonds of marriage and the divine principles of compassion upheld by the scriptures of God.

References:

  • 42 C.F.R. § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, violated by Prestige’s failure to treat Linda’s vomiting and diarrhea during an outbreak.
  • 42 C.F.R. § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors, including spouses, without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs, violated by excluding me from communication about Linda’s condition.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2627: Spouses have priority in guardianship proceedings and rights to participate in care, violated by Prestige and Toto’s refusal to engage me during a health crisis.
  • 42 C.F.R. § 483.80: Facilities must maintain an infection prevention and control program, violated by Prestige’s inaction during a “summer flu” outbreak, as confirmed by the DHHS Report.
  • Nebraska DHHS Influenza Report, Week 19, 2025: Documents 95 influenza and 201 COVID-19 outbreaks in long-term care facilities, evidencing systemic infection control failures at Prestige.

May 15, 2025 (Thursday, Visit No. 398)

Time: 12:30 PM to 2:50 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • No search. Had to answer, "Did you bring in food or drink?" As usual, unlike other visitors (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
  • Still astounds me. No reason ever given for searches or their suspension. It is Franz Kafka Land.
  • Linda looked comfortable when I arrived.
  • Brought to bathroom. Changed top and bottom. Did teeth. Also cleaned Mary's glasses.
  • Put her big photo name tag on the new wheelchair, making it feel like hers. She is happy with it. I took the transporter she had been using to the car, alongside the walker and prescription knee braces (very expensive), which were blocked by T. (head of nursing) despite detailed prescriptions (42 CFR § 483.10(e)(2); 42 CFR § 483.25).
  • It’s like the David Spade commercial where his only line at customer service is "No" with varying intonation, denying Linda’s prescribed equipment.
  • Started to head outside. Most nurses dressed in retro outfits. Nice team spirit.
  • Saw the rabbit had gotten into many plants in the planter. Better get chicken wire for Linda’s "Babaloo"!
  • Linda really enjoyed the wind and sunshine. Wrapped her in a blanket as she drank her root beer ($2.25).
  • We talked about many things—a real back-and-forth conversation. Most conversations in the nursing home are rather one-dimensional and superficial.
  • Everybody’s got a story, but they don’t know how to share it. I always push Linda to think.
  • I always ask her what I wore yesterday. Visit 398 means about 398 differently configured outfits, a new one each day. Who thinks of that!?
  • Birds were happy to see us. Put out food and had customers immediately. Applied low-dose fertilizer to plants to avoid burning them.
  • There was an ice cream party for National Nurses Week, likely hosted by hospice staff. I got Linda to a table, and she ordered chocolate ice cream with sprinkles and caramel topping.
  • She really enjoyed it, and we conversed with other residents.
  • Eating ice cream required a outfit change, so I applied Downy detergent to the pink shirt and helped her put on a black one.
  • T. (head of nursing) and A. (head of admissions) were there, studiously avoiding looking at me. Stranger in a Strange Land (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).
  • Their animus toward me, a spouse with rights, is negatively impacting Linda’s treatment, constituting slander and harassment (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839).
  • It is surreal. No one has directly addressed me about any aspect of the treatment directed toward me. Twilight Zone, for sure.
  • Performed routine room cleanup with Linda. Exchanged her small wastepaper basket for one from home, as hers had lost a “clawed” foot. Brought the right-size lavender-scented bags for it.
  • We read from 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 about “Love is kind” and passages about marriage. Appalling that Linda is prohibited from attending Mass. Aren’t we in the United States of America? (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(8); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 71-6021; Canon 1118).
  • Prayed and said I would call later when I get home. Miss her already.

Observations:

It is still really unpleasant to visit down there. Do they intend to maintain this hostile environment for years? Trust is an issue. These notes are my only protection—and Linda’s only protection. It is plain as day that this hostility is impacting Linda’s treatment in many dimensions. They should just stop it (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).

References:

May 14, 2025 (Wednesday, Visit No. 397)

Time: 4:36 PM to 6:30 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • No search. Had to answer, "Did you bring in food or drink?" As usual, unlike other visitors (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
  • Linda was happy and excited to see me. She had a big day and news to share: She got a more comfortable wheelchair, had a bath and was clean and shiny, and did 1000 steps on the NuStep machine. She was beaming (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Brought to bathroom. Got her ready to go out in the late day. Coco Mademoiselle perfume of the day.
  • Bought her a Yahoo ($2.25). We went out into the warm weather.
  • Brought brace, but with her big day, decided to stand on it tomorrow. Always have my Lysol wipes for the white fence, just in case. She’ll get there.
  • Fed the birds (squirrels have been a no-show). Pulverized walnuts and almonds with my rubber hammer for the birds. Every day, the "plate" stones where we put the food are clean.
  • R. (resident) was out and happy to see our little garden and the feeding process. Getting out in good weather is invigorating for residents (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Swear that bamboo grew 2–3 inches last night. Took a photo.
  • Bamboo Plant

    Bamboo growing before our eyes!

  • We saw a rabbit out the back windows. Might have to give Babaloo the tomato a little chicken wire.
  • Linda wanted to stay out as long as she could. Helped stretch and exercise her arms.
  • Her right side needs strengthening. The NuStep is great, but she needs to stand and walk to avoid becoming bedridden. I get emotional about it but hide it from her (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • She got a little more color today.
  • We discussed staff claims that I am unsafe for Linda. She scoffed and said, "They are liars" (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839).
  • We discussed residents with "dementia" and its range. M. (Linda’s previous roommate) has fairly normal conversations but then talks about needing a pickup for her pig farm. She’s over 90 and in the right place.
  • Linda is diminished and weaker than before. Labeling her with lunatic-like dementia is wrong (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • She is oriented. She misses her Google Home, her window to the larger world, from which she is cut off: no restaurant, no Dairy Queen, no downtown Plattsmouth, no Mass (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Church of Lukumi Babalu Aye, 508 U.S. 520 (1993)).
  • In more ways than one, Linda knows what time it is. It is time to get married in the church!
  • Canon 1118: Governs the place of marriage, preferring a parish church but allowing other suitable places with permission (1983 Code of Canon Law, Book IV, Title VII, Chapter V).

Observations:

So proud of Linda: shower, wheelchair, PT—huge achievements! There is still a coolness at Prestige, but with the "Big Wigs" absent later, it was less like being an insect in a glass bottle. Visitors brought boxes, bags, and coolers with treats and food. A lady with two cloth shopping bags got hot water for tea for her visitee. The inconsistency in food policies is stark. I have documented bringing hundreds of meals. As Linda and I discussed—she is still alive (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).

References:

May 13, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 396)

Time: 1:36 PM to 4:10 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • No search. Had to answer, "Did you bring in food or drink?" I guess I am special, unlike other visitors (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
  • Brought down bamboo tray with glass top for Linda. Japanese scene with Mt. Fuji in background. Probably 100 years old. Hope it might serve as a lap table and writing table.
  • Brought to bathroom.
  • Brushed hair with wet brush and put in new ponytail.
  • She selected Midnight Raw Flower perfume that I had bought her a while back. Nice fragrance.
  • Cleaned and straightened room. Hamper. Closet. Changed top from pink to blue.
  • Febreze on bedding. Will change sheets tomorrow after her bath.
  • So short-staffed, M. had to wait over an hour to get help to get into bed (42 CFR § 483.35).
  • Went outside. Bamboo really shooting up! Seems to grow inches overnight! Most of the flowers have sprouted. Babaloo the tomato seems healthy.
  • We saw a rabbit out the back windows. Might have to give Babaloo a little chicken wire.
  • Lots of birds. They chirp a lot when I bring the feedbag. No thank-you notes yet.
  • Linda drank a Sunny Soda ($2.25) and we spent a lot of time outside, watering and feeding critters together.
  • Linda is very weak but determined. If she does not get exercise and stimulation, she will become bedridden (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • I helped her do some stretches. Put on brace. She stood for about 5 minutes. It is a daunting struggle for her, but I am so privileged and proud.
  • I brought her to the threshold of PT (I am not allowed to enter). Of the 10,000 nursing home residents in Nebraska who are lucky enough to get a visitor, I am certainly the most sanctioned (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 71-6018(3)).
  • I went to Linda's room for some more straightening while she was on the NuStep bike. Kept walking down the hall to see how she was doing and encourage her from my position at the threshold.
  • Surreal watching my wife struggle and not give up as she did her 20 minutes and 1000 steps. I got very emotional and was close to crying. It is like I am observing her from another dimension—through a portal.
  • Linda on NuStep bike

    Watching My Wife from Threshold

  • On the way back to the room, Linda ran into A. and C. (Nurse) and called out to them. She wants to get a wheelchair. The transporter is too tight for her as the seat sinks down (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • A. gave Linda a cheery hello, dripping with falsity. (Yes, I am a linguist and have studied intonation, etc.) A. studiously ignored me, as if I was not there. Must be very hard to do that, I thought. Just pure hostility. The intensity of it is so disquieting. A very hostile environment in which to visit. No one else is treated like this. In the whole damned state! (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).
  • Brought Linda back to her room and got her situated after another go at the bathroom.
  • Talked about the new tray and she picked at her lunch. She doesn't like the food there, and she craves my homemade meals. I have been selectively discriminated against by the guardian, who knows that I love to cook, and the sharing of a meal is the cornerstone of our marriage (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-840).
  • We prayed and talked about tomorrow. She reminded me to write a check for the Church of the Holy Spirit as Father Pfeiffer is visiting her tomorrow. Did so.
  • Told her that I will call her when I get home. One is a lonely number for both of us.

Observations:

The weather and seeing color in Linda's face make me want to get down on my knees and thank God. Thank Him for so much undeserved grace. I continue to be stunned how a professional workplace can wear their animosity toward me so openly, perhaps proudly. Folks can justify anything when they wake up in the morning and go down the list of who they hate—their enemy list. I, personally, try to cleanse myself of any bitterness in reaction to being mistreated. It is easier not to carry that burden. I get worried sick about Linda. She needs a daily visit and stimulation. Everything that the guardian and Prestige do is just plain against the Book (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).

References:

  • Visit 391 – Complaint – May 8, 2025: On May 5, a visit to Linda at Prestige Care Center revealed a disturbing pattern of behavior from staff that can only be described as dehumanization, exclusion, and authoritarianism. On Monday, her day started with a “surprise-surprise” doctor visit she was not informed of beforehand—totally wrong (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)). Then she was handed a dense pack of inscrutable letters, including a plethora of Medicaid CMS codes. But today, the Head of Admissions, alongside another staff member, stood over Linda—seated in her wheelchair—delivering a speech about her room change without engaging her in dialogue. This condescending approach, with two or three staff towering over a resident, symbolizes a stark power imbalance, treating Linda as an object to be managed rather than a person with agency (42 CFR § 483.10(c)(6)). Meanwhile, Linda’s spouse was completely ignored, treated as a nonentity despite attempts to engage, a tactic reminiscent of stories where powerful figures like Ted Turner would fire employees for daring to make eye contact—a chilling display of power over powerlessness (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)). This exclusion and disempowerment, ongoing since July 2024, reflect Prestige’s broader motif of hostility, where staff act as if they’re above accountability, issuing orders like drill sergeants in a boot camp rather than fostering mutual respect. Linda also reported missing physical therapy because no one came to get her, a clear failure by Prestige (42 CFR § 483.25; 42 CFR § 483.35). Why has Linda’s guardian, Carol Toto, not addressed this neglect? Is Kathleen Pallesen’s influence, as the guardian’s attorney and a close friend of Prestige’s Head of Admissions, to blame? (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608). A complaint has been filed with Nebraska DHHS, CMS, and the Nebraska Long-Term Care Ombudsman to investigate, consistent with whistleblower protections for reporting resident rights violations (31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • What do you think? Have you faced similar treatment at nursing homes, where staff wield power through exclusion and condescension? Share your story below to hold Prestige accountable.

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(c)(6): Residents have the right to be treated with dignity and respect.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including medical care information.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including exercise.
  • 42 CFR § 483.35: Facilities must have sufficient staff to meet residents’ needs.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608: Guardians must act in the ward’s best interests, ensuring proper care and autonomy.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114: Health care facilities must maintain professional conduct.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

May 7, 2025 (Wednesday, Visit No. 390)

Time: 1:37 PM to 3:05 PM, Video and Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning calls.
  • J. (Front Desk), under orders, looks in briefcase. Again, I said, these are legal papers, but allowed (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Helped Linda rearrange pillows on her chair and changed Chux Pads.
  • She had just had a shower. Her hair was not combed properly, but she was clean and fresh (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • She ate lunch, had to spot with Dove, and put pink sweatshirt in hamper. Put on an animal print top.
  • Put name label in new pants and brought to hamper.
  • Swept, arranged closet, tidied room.
  • Applied Mademoiselle perfume. Put on shoes and went outside.
  • Went to Rec, saw that the flowers had been mostly planted outside.
  • Linda poked her head into PT and told E. (Physical Therapist) she would like to go later. I am not allowed to set foot in PT (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644).
  • Went outside and brushed Linda’s hair properly. Put in ponytail.
  • Crushed some nuts for birds (need to buy more birdseed), watered plants, filled birdbath.
  • Weather was perfect. We enjoyed the sun and greenery. Spoke about a lot of things.
  • Discussed getting her back on the fence so she can get back to where she was after 70-day forced visitation ban (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Back in room, brought her to bathroom, [Redacted for Privacy]. Discussed how she needs a lot of care, and that I could not do it alone without a Care Team. Also discussed that she needs to transition—go outside, church, restaurant, Dairy Queen, and take baby steps.
  • Showed her the quarter-page ad in the Omaha Daily Record. She is in the newspaper!
  • Discussed Father Pfeiffer’s visit today. She showed him her Catechism of the Catholic Church and her well-worn Bible.
  • Prayed over her. Kisses. Tomorrow will try to get her to stand on fence.

Observations:

Mentally, she is more focused and purpose-driven about improving her situation. We both feel the oppression of those at Prestige who truly dislike us. Why they follow instructions from a puppet-master in Florida (Toto) is still an enigma. There is not a single nursing home visitor in this state that has been treated as shabbily as I have been, with no reason and no recourse (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)). In the PM, Linda called and said her sister keeps calling, but she does not want to answer. She is going to ask them to put it in the chart that she does not want to speak to her sister. She is doing this on her own, with no prompting from me. They keep bringing the house phone to her, so it is duress. Just bad blood there, I suspect (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including communication preferences.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including hygiene and exercise.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608: Guardians must act in the ward’s best interests, ensuring proper care and autonomy.
  • Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644 (2015): Protects marital rights, including shared activities and support.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

May 6, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 389)

Time: 12:37 PM to 3:25 PM, Video and Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning calls.
  • J. (Front Desk) at front desk said, “T. (Head of Nursing) said we have to search briefcase.” I told her it was illegal as these are legal papers, but went ahead (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Brought down foam pillows, cut to make Linda’s recliner more comfortable. Seemed to work.
  • Brought her to bathroom twice. Had a good BM.
  • She is still wearing new Cuddle Duds and liked them. Told her I will look for an alternative brand with the same velour fabric.
  • Went by PT to notify E. (Physical Therapist) that Linda wants to go later. Spoke to M. (Physical Therapist) about the CNA’s interest in soccer (Sydney).
  • Bought Linda a Mountain Dew, went outside, enjoyed 77°F weather.
  • Fed squirrels and birds (need more food and nuts), put water in birdbath, watered plants. Bamboo taking root.
  • Went to Rec room; flowers we brought are now outside. Fingers crossed.
  • In room, set up computer; Linda watched 8-minute podcast and website. She loved the visuals, sparking her. Liked my voice too.
  • Cleaned room, took out garbage. Need to wash tablecloths soon. Got her comfortable with custom pillows.
  • She wants me to send a card.
  • Prayed over her. Kisses. Tomorrow, try to get her to stand on fence.

Observations:

Podcast lit a fire in her belly. Proud of her for PT and standing up for rights. Forcing full-sentence replies to counter the funk from the 70-day ban. Stunned by yesterday’s underhanded events. Nursing home is a sensory deprivation lab; residents aren’t brought outside in spectacular weather (42 CFR § 483.25).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement and exercise.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

May 5, 2025 (Monday, Visit No. 388)

Time: 12:25 PM to 2:25 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning calls. Linda said J. (Transportation) announced a “surprise” visit with Dr. Goodman. Shocked at the deviousness; Linda fired Goodman last year, and he’s under investigation (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Linda refused the visit immediately, her decision, not mine.
  • Bed, teeth, fluffed bed, straightened closet, clothes to hamper, garbage out, got ice.
  • Bathroom twice.
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.25). Went outside to sunshine.
  • J. (Transportation) asked if Linda was certain about refusing Goodman. Linda verified while I watered plants. J. (Transportation) said T. (Head of Nursing) will list it as “refused,” then called Carol Toto in Florida. Linda stated it was her decision (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).
  • Bamboo taking root. Hope it grows fast!
  • Stopped by Rec Room; Harold planted our donated flowers outside.
  • At PT threshold (I’m barred), Linda verified PT for later (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644).
  • Late afternoon, Linda did 1020 NuStep bike steps. Proud of her.
  • Linda showed me a 5-page “Order Summary Report” by Dr. Wester (8:48 AM). Lists 40-60 dense diagnoses, no tests. Mentions Z51.81 blood draw (T. (Head of Nursing) claimed kidney test, non-consented) (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Linda reports a dozen unanswered calls from Carol, “burning up my phone!” Faces pressure to call sister but refuses, saying, “I do not have a sister!” (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).

Observations:

Linda’s fire is back! Proud of her standing up, refusing Goodman, and pushing for PT. Carol’s dastardly calls and Wester’s sham report rewrite her history (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608). Love is patient, love is kind.

References:

May 3, 2025 (Sunday, Visit No. 387)

Time: 1:05 PM to 3:25 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning calls. Linda anxious, lonely.
  • Fairly mellow visit.
  • Bed, teeth, nice shower. Clean like a shiny penny.
  • Straightened room a bit.
  • Bought Starbucks chocolate. Went outside.
  • Got sun. Fed squirrels and birds. Used watering can for our garden.
  • Got her comfortable. Talked, prayed, discussed my daily fight.
  • Went home to finish podcast and website.

Observations:

Linda slightly stronger. Discussed rebuilding strength on the fence, back to last spring’s progress. She’ll come back. Robert notes her weakness from 70-day separation, sees T. (Head of Nursing)’s absence as relaxing. Robert cannot understand how he was banned by an email from Toto to Prestige with no notice or reason, and subsequently how it came about that he is not banned. They are just playing loose with whatever rules they have in the Rule Book they were ordered to supply to me by the Judge, but did not (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d). I believe it is called selective discrimination. And that is a fact.

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608: Guardians must act in the ward’s best interests, ensuring proper care and autonomy.
  • Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d: Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

May 2, 2025 (Friday, Visit No. 385)

Time: 12:05 PM to 2:45 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Several morning calls. Linda anxious to see me. She’s a good wife.
  • We support each other in this impossible problem.
  • D. (Front Desk) searched bag with wedding dress and sprouting garlic (thought it was food, banned). Stumped (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Linda loved the beige chiffon wedding dress with mirrors and lace. Discussed sandals, clutch, pearls.
  • Hung dress on door, got comments.
  • Linda tired post-PT (yesterday). Weaker, pushing full-sentence replies, pines for homemade meals (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Changed top, pants, booties. Incontinent. Bathroom twice.
  • Straightened room, swept, clothes to hamper, returned dress to thrift store. Spoke to Bonnie about her husband.
  • Bonnie (thrift store) sparked gossip about wedding. Directed to local jeweler.
  • Back to Linda, finishing lunch. Got real silverware (plastic doesn’t work for her numb arm). Massaged arm, new ponytail, clipped nails (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Made upholstered chair comfortable. Small things matter.
  • Bought Starbucks. Complained to D. (Front Desk) about $150/month vending costs. Thermos is free.
  • Outside, fed squirrels/birds (clean plate club). Showed Linda sunflower seed cracking. Flowers not sprouted.
  • Discussed hydroponic flowers with J. (Transportation), A., R. (Recreation) (enthusiastic). Left garlic clove.
  • Atmosphere slightly better? Longer visits for Bingo when settled.
  • Cuddle Duds delivered to Prestige (12:30 PM). Linda tracked them, delayed by staff (42 CFR § 483.25).

Observations:

Visit 385 shows understaffing’s toll. Angels (staff) stressed. Linda needs daily visits to move, talk, emerge from malaise. Nursing home lacks stimulation; shallow conversations. Studies show that residents’ health deteriorates faster in a nursing home setting. So it is a self-fulfilling prediction that the longer a resident stays, the more they will need to stay. Profits until the last resident is standing or wheeling. I know that is a cynical take, but I am a years-long observer, CNA, and Peer Support Specialist with a keen eye and ear. The 70-day ban’s cruelty will take months to overcome (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement and nutrition.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.
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April 30, 2025 (Wednesday, Visit No. 383)

Time: 11:05 AM to 2:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Numerous AM calls.
  • Cold shoulders. Bag, legal papers searched. Tipped off Prestige is abuzz about my filings (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).
  • Bathroom twice. Constipated; advised Dulcolax.
  • Straightened room, organized perfume/cosmetic tray (Dollar Store organizers).
  • Swept, garbage out, clothes to hamper, made recliner bed. Washed face, applied cream, perfume.
  • Bought Starbucks coffee. Went outside, planted bamboo near Cupid statue. Fed squirrels/birds.
  • Staff rarely take residents outside; fresh air invigorates Linda (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Linda disliked lunch (tough hotdog). Got PB&J sandwich from kitchen (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Read Cana miracle (John) during lunch.
  • Clerk (Kati) called; Judge denied contempt motion, suggested another court.
  • Discussed marriage, prayed. Ordered Cuddle Duds (Size 10, $40) for Saturday delivery.

Observations:

Prestige’s hostility persists, but Linda’s engagement (discussing court, marriage) shows resilience. Fresh air critical, yet staff neglect outdoor time. Bamboo symbolizes hope amidst adversity (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement and nutrition.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 29, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 382)

Time: 12:25 PM to 2:35 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Nurse pressured Linda to call sister in Florida, claiming blocked calls. Linda, under duress, confirmed no block on phone. They checked her phone (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).
  • T. (Head of Nursing) grabbed Linda’s phone to call Carol about toe pads, forcing conversation (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).
  • Arrived with briefcase; J. (Front Desk) searched legal papers. Told her Prestige has no right; it’s for court (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Linda couldn’t name day (Tuesday), knew date (29th). No calendar, Google Home taken, low energy, life expectancy (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Kissed, prayed. Bathroom (BM, urine). Harder to lift; chilled despite 80°F room. Washed face, changed top, applied cream, perfume.
  • Changed Flamingo sheets, swept, garbage/laundry out.
  • Bought Monster drink ($4.25), went outside. Wonderful weather, fed squirrels/birds, planted seeds (Zinnia, Sunflower, Daisy).
  • Linda lethargic; 70-day ban and stress from Prestige/Carol caused setback (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Got her comfortable in upholstered chair, cut pork, buttered potato.
  • Read, finished Book of Ruth. Linda loved it.
  • Linda anticipates Father Pfeiffer’s visit. Suggested Mass for her when funds allow (42 CFR § 483.10(h)).
  • T. (Head of Nursing) pressured Linda to call sister; Linda refused, asserting her right (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).

Observations:

Hatred palpable; forcing Linda to call Carol is unconscionable (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)). She’s fading, may need hospice at home. Management avoids eye contact, reflecting slander (Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839). Prestige’s neglect and Carol’s pressure are to blame (42 CFR § 483.25).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including communication preferences.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(h): Residents have the right to participate in religious activities and services of their choice.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839: Slander is false, unprivileged oral statements causing reputational harm.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608: Guardians must act in the ward’s best interests, ensuring proper care and autonomy.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 28, 2025 (Monday, Visit No. 381)

Time: 11:50 AM to 2:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • No one at desk. Nurse Linda checked my can of air (for call button) and legal papers. Compressed air was to clean out call button, which was malfunctioning (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Linda reported Naomi’s rudeness: didn’t close door, misfolded chair, no pillows, hostile attitude (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).
  • Linda told Naomi, “Do your job! Why just you?” Naomi didn’t reply, didn’t smile (42 CFR § 483.12).
  • Linda weak, more stable. Smile better, dimples back. Grip OK. Left arm cold; added sleeves, adjusted brace.
  • At 3:00 PM, Linda did 850 PT steps. Progress noted.
  • Linda “saw” Dr. Joe in hall. Mary Adelaide Mendolson in *Tender Loving Greed* calls these gang visits by doctors such as “Dr. Joe.” He asked about her move; she called staff “bitches,” feeling “shitty.” They moved her without notice, without informed consent, and no reason was provided (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)). Months ago, they took away her Google Home, which was her access to weather, time, day, and trivia. Again, just brute force and bullying (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Linda recalled unconsented blood draw by Er. (Nurse) weeks ago, results withheld (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Bought Monster Energy Drink. Went outside, nice day. Saw Daniel (resident) buying cigarettes.
  • Planted Marigolds under Cupid statue. Need Miracle-Gro.
  • Reminded Linda to find beauty daily. Prayed.
  • Bathroom twice, no pee. Swept, straightened closet, garbage/laundry out, cut turkey for lunch.
  • Discussed court case; complex but informed her.
  • Read Book of Ruth’s vow to Naomi.

Observations:

Linda’s uncomfortable, depressed from humiliation and 70-day ban. Stress from Prestige’s neglect and unconsented actions (blood draw, room move) worsens her health. I’ll never stop fighting for her (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including medical care and living arrangements.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including adequate equipment and engagement.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114: Health care facilities must maintain professional conduct.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 26, 2025 (Saturday, Visit No. 380)

Time: 1:10 PM to 5:05 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • D. (Front Desk) checked bag with Bible, sewing materials, pants. Signed in; no one at desk (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Bathroom twice. Changed pants, top. Sewed pants while talking.
  • Read legal papers for Monday.
  • Bought A1 Root Beer, went outside. Added bird seed, almonds for squirrels. Saw hawk, buzzards.
  • Wrapped Linda in jacket; cold.
  • Read Catechism, Ruth. Made her comfortable, took my unused footstool home.
  • Attended 4 PM Mass; greeted Mary, Karen (allowed to attend). Linda prohibited from attending religious services at Church of the Holy Spirit or receiving the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. No reason given: “Just because!?” (42 CFR § 483.10(h); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 71-6018(5); Church of Lukumi Babalu Aye, Inc. v. City of Hialeah, 508 U.S. 520 (1993); Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644 (2015)).
  • Linda said call light not working; confirmed. Promised air can tomorrow (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Straightened tabletops, applied Eternity perfume.

Observations:

Linda weak, unsteady from 70-day ban. Depressed, finds no beauty. Suggested hawk, church, marriage. Small acts (perfume, sewing) lift her soul. Prestige’s neglect dims her spirit. Even her soul is imprisoned here (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(h): Residents have the right to participate in religious activities and services of their choice, including attending services outside the facility.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement and equipment maintenance.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 71-6018(5): Residents have the right to engage in religious practices without interference.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.
  • Church of Lukumi Babalu Aye, Inc. v. City of Hialeah, 508 U.S. 520 (1993): Laws or policies targeting specific religious practices violate the Free Exercise Clause unless narrowly tailored to a compelling government interest.
  • Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644 (2015): Protects marital rights, including shared activities and sacramental participation.

April 25, 2025 (Friday, Visit No. 379)

Time: 1:47 PM to 4:01 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Linda called 10:30 AM; T. (Head of Nursing), An. (Head of Admissions), and M. (unknown staff) entered, politely criticized call light/phone overuse. Claimed 6-minute response, not understaffed, room better for skills (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.35).
  • Arrived 1:47 PM, left 4:01 PM. J. (Front Desk) searched bags (wedding dress from thrift store, Menards hooks) (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Visited Bonnie at thrift store; discussed assisted living for her husband. Recommended Prestige despite management issues.
  • Chilly day, bundled Linda, bought Starbucks, fed squirrels/birds outside.
  • Showed Linda wedding dress; liked but wants beige. Hung on door, got comments.
  • Cleaned room, bathroom twice (small BM, pee), swept, trash/laundry out, brushed hair, applied cream, perfume.
  • Planned wedding accessories (clutch, shoes, hat, veil). Brought Catechism for marriage discussion.
  • PT at 3:00 PM, 600 steps. E. (Physical Therapist) applied brace; I’m barred from PT room (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644).
  • Put up bulletin board; hope it holds.

Observations:

The 70-day ban wasn’t good for Linda. They turned our love as a weapon against us. Weak, unstable, but fighting back with PT. Prestige’s pressure (call light lecture) and room change harm her. They gang up on her 3 to 1 or 2 to 1 (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement.
  • 42 CFR § 483.35: Facilities must have sufficient staff to meet residents’ needs.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.
  • Obergefell v. Hodges, 576 U.S. 644 (2015): Protects marital rights, including shared activities and support.

April 24, 2025 (Thursday, Visit No. 378)

Time: 1:25 PM to 3:24 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Linda called before 7 AM for my 71st birthday. Visited with brother Robert post-haircut, brought store-bought pizza.
  • T. (Head of Nursing) claimed pizza banned; clarified Robert brought it, cited April 7 court order (PR 22-1652) allowing store-bought. T. (Head of Nursing) took pizza; Robert reported theft to police (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 28-511).
  • T. (Head of Nursing), others blocked door, escalating harassment. Refused outdated papers (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.25), went outside. Assisted Linda: bathroom (2x), denture care, room organization, sewn pants.
  • Discussed Cana miracle, Ruth; Linda smiled. Noted ownership (Lahasky, Kaplan) tied to fraud.
  • Mary fell due to improper bedding; Linda likes her (42 CFR § 483.25).

Observations:

Linda’s smile improves, but 70-day ban weakened her. Harassment (pizza theft, door blocking) targets us, violating court order. Lahasky/Kaplan’s mismanagement fuels neglect. Really, taking pizza from a visitor? There are no dietary restrictions. It is selective discrimination and slander (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including safe equipment and environment.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839: Slander is false, unprivileged oral statements causing reputational harm.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 28-511: Theft is the unlawful taking of property with intent to deprive the owner.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114: Health care facilities must maintain professional conduct.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 23, 2025 (Wednesday, Visit No. 377)

Time: 1:25 PM to 3:24 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Met Father Pfeiffer, delivered marriage documents, gave Sue my homemade jams.
  • J. (Front Desk) checked wooden box, napkins, legal papers. Asked if other visitors are searched; she said no (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • J. (Transportation, Mitchell) asked about my suit; said it’s for potential arrest in hostile environment (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Bathroom (2x), straightened chair, put up photo montage, attempted bulletin board (need clips).
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.25), fed squirrels/birds outside, discussed planting under Cupid statue.
  • Fixed dentures, applied perfume. Linda reminded me for deodorant.
  • Called Maddie (Nebraska assistive tech) for larger transporter; Linda led conversation (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Discussed wedding dress (beige), Bible (Cana miracle). Linda smiled.
  • Linda reported Mary’s fall; staff ignored call lights (42 CFR § 483.25; 42 CFR § 483.35).

Observations:

Linda’s smile, dimples improving. Fresh air helps, but arm weak. Staff hostility persists, except a few. Structured visits with meaning (Bible, wedding) give hope (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including equipment preferences.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including timely responses to call lights.
  • 42 CFR § 483.35: Facilities must have sufficient staff to meet residents’ needs.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 22, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 376)

Time: 12:25 PM to 1:50 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Planned to bring hot sauce, hangers, Lysol, Febreze. No inspection at sign-in.
  • Cleaned bathroom with Walmart supplies; Nurse Linda, Naomi confiscated them, citing rules (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Naomi mocked my “diplomacy” comment; past friendliness gone (42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114).
  • Bathroom twice, changed top (scrubbed Starbucks stain), sewed loose pants.
  • Outside, fed birds with new seed, discussed gratitude, prayed.
  • Linda received my card (golden dog).
  • Swept, took garbage, nutty bars (Carol’s) home. E. (Physical Therapist) planned PT for 3 PM; Linda slept.
  • Washed face, applied cream, prayed.

Observations:

Linda more vital, smile stronger. Oppressive atmosphere; staff try to break me. Only visitor searched in Nebraska, requiring courage. Prestige’s victory is no visits; mine is love. I used my own supplies to clean Linda’s bathroom for two years. Why was today different? Tried to take my air freshener, until I pointed out the roommate had some. Reluctantly allowed me to have it. If this is not harassment, nothing is (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 CFR § 483.12; Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 25-839: Slander is false, unprivileged oral statements causing reputational harm.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 38-1,114: Health care facilities must maintain professional conduct.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 21, 2025 (Monday, Visit No. 375)

Time: 12:35 PM to 1:40 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Three video calls; Linda smiled, improving.
  • Linda said small room uncomfortable, wants out (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Bought Febreze, Fabuloso, napkins, paper towels. J. (Front Desk) searched bags, legal papers (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Bathroom, straightened room, used Fabuloso in toilet. Need more supplies.
  • Arranged upholstered chair for lunch, applied arm brace, gave exercise egg.
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.25), discussed Pope’s passing in South Dining Room.
  • Outside with sunglasses, blanket. Picked dandelion, lilac for hair.
  • Another resident’s visitor planted flower seeds.
  • Bathroom, brief change, changed booties, garbage out.
  • Tested arm, grip, smile, eyes; improving post-weakness.
  • Discussed transitional program (restaurant, church, park). Needs strength.
  • Post-68-day ban, conversational skills weak; pushing full sentences (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Spoke to Melissa; E. (Physical Therapist) at dentist. Linda did 1000 NuStep steps (3:40 PM).
  • Hostile environment, except Nurse L., J. (Front Desk) (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

Observations:

Linda slowly improving post-TIA. 68-day ban and room change hurt her. Wants home-cooked meal, banned. Step-by-step visits cherished. This is like Nuremberg—just following orders. But the orders here are anonymous (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including living arrangements.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including social engagement.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 20, 2025 (Sunday, Visit No. 374)

Time: 3:00 PM to 4:40 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Linda called 8:15 AM, slept better. Wished Happy Easter.
  • No shower/bath despite schedule (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • D. (Front Desk) searched envelope with legal papers: “No weapons, alcohol, food” (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Linda lethargic, worst in years (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Cleaned room, closet, took out 2 banker boxes, 2 trash bags.
  • Bathroom twice, cleaned dentures, glasses, face, applied cream, brushed hair, ponytail, Coco perfume.
  • No one at desk when leaving; no search post-4 PM?
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.25). Hostile environment, few smiles (42 CFR § 483.12; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

Observations:

Linda’s post-TIA recovery slow; Prestige denies it. 68-day ban caused decline. Goal: functional room, uneventful visits, outdoor time (42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including hygiene and engagement.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 19, 2025 (Saturday, Visit No. 373)

Time: 11:10 AM to 1:15 PM, Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • D. (Front Desk) searched bag, legal papers; asked about food/drink, said no (42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4); Title VI, 42 U.S.C. § 2000d; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).
  • Delivered letter per Rule Book.
  • Assisted Linda: bathroom, changed sheets, trash, laundry, ice, pink sweatshirt.
  • Bought Starbucks ($4.50), chips ($1.75); showed YouTube video.
  • Reviewed legal papers, left Judge’s order copy.
  • Linda subdued, slurred speech, suspected TIA, said “beat up” (42 CFR § 483.25).
  • Nurse gave Tylenol, refused medication disclosure (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4)).
  • Set up lunch table, Sweet’N Low, phone, items. Kissed, prayed.
  • Linda rejected sister’s call, said, “I have no sister” (42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4); Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608).

Observations:

Linda weakened, likely TIA. Staff non-transparent, hostile. Sheets unchanged for weeks; room messy. Bare-minimum care harms rest (42 CFR § 483.12; 42 CFR § 483.25; 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h)).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.10(f)(4): Residents have the right to receive visitors without restrictions, subject to reasonable clinical and safety needs.
  • 42 CFR § 483.10(g)(4): Residents have the right to make choices about aspects of their life, including communication preferences and medical information.
  • 42 CFR § 483.12: Facilities must protect residents from abuse, neglect, or treatment that compromises psychological well-being.
  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including hygiene and timely care.
  • Neb. Rev. Stat. § 30-2608: Guardians must act in the ward’s best interests, ensuring proper care and autonomy.
  • Title VI, Civil Rights Act (42 U.S.C. § 2000d): Prohibits discrimination in programs receiving federal funds.
  • 31 U.S.C. § 3730(h): Protects whistleblowers from retaliation for reporting fraud against government programs.

April 18, 2025 (Friday, No Visit)

Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • 7:00 AM, Linda reported hard night; 9:30 AM, waited over an hour for bathroom, felt dismissed (42 CFR § 483.25; 42 CFR § 483.35).
  • Requested sheet change via J. (Front Desk).
  • Linda completed 1200 PT steps.
  • Informed Linda of April 19 visit order.
  • Prayed throughout day and night.

Observations:

Linda struggled with delays; PT progress noted. Isolation and neglect persist (42 CFR § 483.25).

References:

  • 42 CFR § 483.25: Facilities must provide care to maintain or enhance residents’ physical and mental health, including timely care.
  • 42 CFR § 483.35: Facilities must have sufficient staff to meet residents’ needs.

April 17, 2025 (Thursday, No Visit)

Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning: Linda stronger but sleepless, depressed; prayed.
  • Encouraged PT, bed-making; promised daily cards.
  • 8:30 PM video: straighter smile, spent hour in hall due to tornadoes, room leaks.
  • 10:15 PM: Linda exhausted, took Trazodone; requested sheet change.

Observations:

Downtrodden; Trazodone timing concerning. Room conditions poor.

April 16, 2025 (Wednesday, No Visit)

Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning: prayed; Linda sore, depressed, skipped PT.
  • 3:00 PM: Linda showered, received card, felt better.
  • 6:25 PM: requested animal print sheets; awaited supper.
  • Evening prayer.

Observations:

Slightly better but defeated; poor room conditions persist.

April 15, 2025 (Tuesday, No Visit)

Time: Phone and Video Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning: Linda confused, fumbling phone, crooked smile; suspected TIA.
  • Contacted HAVOCA, RAINN for therapy options.
  • 11:30 AM: Linda reported left-side droop; called Prestige; T.(Head of Nursing) promised check.
  • Hr.(CNA) assisted bathroom, noted rough condition; prayed.
  • 7:15 PM video: poor motor control, lethargic; suspected medication issues.

Observations:

Lethargic, no anger; inadequate staff response. TIA symptoms concerning.

April 14, 2025 (Monday, No Visit)

Time: Phone and VideoCalls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Morning: prayed; Linda reported pain, fatigue, “mini-stroke.”
  • Video call: smile droop, unfocused; mailed card.
  • 1:00 PM: called Prestige; J.(Front Desk) promised nurse contact.
  • 7:00 PM: slurred speech, forgot marriage year, reported 800 PT steps.
  • 7:32 PM: Beverly noted check, promised hydration.

Observations:

Suspected TIA, confusion; room change, block worsened decline.

April 13, 2025 (Sunday, No Visit)

Time: Phone Calls Throughout the Day
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Spoke multiple times, prayed; sent Father Pfeiffer’s greetings.
  • Linda reported discomfort in room 509, dismayed by block.
  • Evening: uncomfortable in chair; Eric moved her to recliner.
  • Evening prayer.

Observations:

Sad, isolated; visitation block caused shock.

April 12, 2025 (Saturday, No Visit)

Time: 10:00 AM to 10:38 AM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in; D.(Front Desk) reported visitation issue, consulted someone.
  • Brother Robert accompanied to remove closet items, not visit.
  • Nurse Linda, per Carla, barred visitation due to April 10 water bottle.
  • Maintained Judge’s order valid; called Sheriff Hardy (civil matter).
  • Nurse Linda agreed to inform Linda of block.

Observations:

Friendly staff; Linda cried, reported discomfort, said, “I have no sister.”

April 11, 2025 (Friday, Visit No. 372)

Time: 11:10 AM to 2:28 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in; T.(Head of Nursing) questioned garbage bags for removing items (pants, pillows, blankets).
  • Bathroom, changed brief, pants, adjusted closet, removed DVD player.
  • Megan (PT) took Linda; 1006 NuStyle steps.
  • Linda overheard Nurse Patti decline Carol’s payment offer.
  • Cleaned denture, applied perfume, garbage out, adjusted tables, applied brace.
  • Linda received snacks, 20 Sprites from Carol.
  • Read affidavit in South Dining Room; Linda wrote “FRIDAY,” completed shape exercise.
  • Assisted lunch; requested Google Home, retrieved from T.(Head of Nursing)’s closet.

Observations:

Linda weaker, trembling; cramped room 509. Staff tense; focused on her comfort.

April 10, 2025 (Thursday, Visit No. 371)

Time: 11:10 AM to 1:49 PM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Signed in; T.(Head of Nursing) provided two-page court order.
  • Greeted Linda with Aide Hr.(CNA) near room 504; moved to South Dining Room.
  • T.(Head of Nursing), Michelle banned water bottle; I declined removal. Bought Starry soda.
  • Adjusted blinds, jacket for cold room.
  • 5:30 PM: assisted DoorDash; 6:00 PM, An.(Head of Admissions) rejected delivery, citing payment. Linda cried about room 509.
  • Care: bathroom, changed brief, cleaned glasses, denture, swept, labeled socks.
  • SLUMS test: Linda scored 28 (normal), unlike E.(Physical Therapy)’s 19.
  • Staff: Nurse Linda, Hr.(CNA), Jessica, E.(Physical Therapy) (friendly); An.(Head of Admissions) (weak).

Observations:

Cramped room 509; staff monitored closely. Carol responds to one of 20 calls. Linda’s normal SLUMS score shows competence.

April 8, 2025 (Tuesday, Visit No. 370)

Time: 11:00 AM to 11:10 AM
Location: Prestige Care Center, 602 S. 18th St., Plattsmouth, NE 68048

Events:

  • Brought Burger King, soda; called Linda to signal for cafeteria.
  • T.(Head of Nursing), J.(Transportation) intercepted; held doors, barred entry, citing court order.
  • T.(Head of Nursing): “Someone saw you”; J.(Transportation): “Linda told us.” Refused food drop-off.
  • Left, embarrassed; returned for 3:00 PM psychologist appointment.

Observations:

Assumed Pallesen, Turner informed Prestige of Judge Huber’s order; denial unexpected.

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Previous Visits: December 2022 – April 2025

Over the period from December 2022 to April 2025, a total of 467 visits were recorded in the visitation log for Linda at Prestige. Of these, homemade or fast food was permitted during approximately 84.7% of the visits.

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Linda Visitation Log (Dec 2022 - Dec 2023)
Linda Visitation Log: December 2022 - December 2023 (Reversed Order)
Visit Date Status Food Items Brought Notes
1 12/13/2022 Allowed None First visit with Linda as she arrives to Prestige.
2 12/14/2022 Allowed Salmon, Rice, Apple Tartlet, Coffee Provided denture cream, Christmas cards. Tooth ache.
3 12/16/2022 Allowed Chicken Salad
4 12/19/2022 Allowed Meat Loaf, Jimmy John Subs (Roast beef, no mayo)
5 12/20/2022 Allowed Hot dogs, onion, coffee, cough drops
6 12/21/2022 Allowed Breakfast Biscuit and Gravy Per Carol, Linda had great day. Tooth ache. PT. Brought electric blanket.
7 12/22/2022 Allowed Pork Chop Linda rooming with Mary, PT Melissa’s mother-in-law.
8 12/23/2022 Allowed Shrimp, Roast Beef, Pudding Linda incontinent, pooped self. Brought blankets. Scott sick in Florida.
9 12/25/2022 Allowed Mac and Cheese, Corn Bread, Candy, Jolly Ranchers Christmas. Julie needed IV in Florida.
10 12/28/2022 Allowed None Kathleen: Richard Guardian on standby. No PT. Linda reports pain.
11 12/29/2022 Allowed Cheese burger, no salt fries Scott and Julie sick. Linda yelling, screaming, detox. Per Carol: Richard to control Linda; better if Steven not visits until settled.
12 01/22/2023 Phone None Spoke to Linda. Sea change in attitude, humbled.
13 01/23/2023 Allowed Shrimp, Roast beef, Pudding
14 01/25/2023 Allowed Sausage and Biscuits Registered Church of Holy Spirit. Linda needs pants from closet.
15 01/26/2023 Allowed Roast beef, guacamole Scott’s friend died.
16 02/09/2023 Allowed Sushi
17 02/11/2023 Allowed Meatballs
18 02/12/2023 Allowed Penne and Sauce, Sprite Watched Superbowl. Brought pillow, laundry.
19 02/14/2023 Allowed Mac & Cheese, Valentine’s Day Card, Candy Washed clothes, pillow. Huber’s bailiff fired. Richard and Carol “Toached.”
20 02/15/2023 Allowed Penne and Sauce Processed photos for Linda.
21 02/17/2023 Allowed Stuffed Shells
22 02/19/2023 Allowed Sushi from Bakers, Baba Ganoush
23 02/20/2023 Allowed Lasagna, Ricotta, Basil, Parsley, Brownies (no nuts) Fixed Linda’s montage. Julie 3 months pregnant.
24 02/21/2023 Allowed Leftovers, Girl Scout cookies Prayed. An.(Head of Admissions) came to room.
25 02/23/2023 Allowed Mac & Cheese Kathlyn came by. Linda has wrist alarm.
26 02/25/2023 Allowed Oysters, Roast Beef, Yellow cake
27 02/27/2023 Allowed Crab cakes, Sprite Brought church envelope, Catholic Cemetery plot.
28 03/01/2023 Allowed Shrimp, Sprite, Carrots, Mucinex Brought screwdriver for Linda’s glasses.
29 03/04/2023 Allowed Crab cakes, lemon, Sprite Brought Pretty Woman DVD for Linda.
30 03/06/2023 Allowed Lasagna Called Linda’s dentist for appointment on 9th.
31 03/11/2023 Allowed Sprite, Hummus, Yogurt & Honey, Coffee, Brownies Brought socks, booties.
32 03/14/2023 Allowed Chicken Fricassee
33 03/22/2023 Allowed Sushi, Baba Ganoush, Zaatar T.(Head of Nursing): Linda has not left room. Brought knee brace.
34 04/02/2023 Allowed Coffee cake Palm Sunday. Glenna’s Birthday.
35 04/03/2023 Allowed Chicken Caccitore, Baba Ganoush, Easter eggs, Hershey Kisses
36 04/04/2023 Allowed Kimchi, Pasta, Versace Perfume
37 04/05/2023 Allowed Penne and Chicken Adjusted glasses.
38 04/06/2023 Allowed Sushi Brought some for Tabby. Adjusted glasses.
39 04/08/2023 Allowed Crab cakes, Sashimi, Whipped garlic potatoes, Key lime pie
40 04/11/2023 Allowed Chicken and Pasta
41 04/18/2023 Allowed Chicken thighs Joe: better at PT. An.(Head of Admissions): dentist in 2 weeks, mood improved.
42 04/23/2023 Allowed Crab cakes, soup Prayed for Leslie’s divorce tomorrow.
43 04/24/2023 Allowed Sushi, yogurt, Sprite Steven’s bank account $0.90.
44 04/25/2023 Allowed Sausage and Spaghetti
45 04/30/2023 Allowed Pasta, Sweet Potatoes, Nuts for Squirrels Brought hangers for Linda’s closet.
46 05/03/2023 Allowed Penne, Sushi, Yogurt, Coffee Took wheelchair out of car, installed electric photo album, brought thin socks, sewing kit.
47 05/05/2023 Allowed Jalapenos, Fish Sticks, Lemon, Tartar Sauce, Ice Coffee Brought Valclean for dentures.
48 05/07/2023 Allowed Sushi, Yogurt, Coffee Brought pillow cases, organized closet.
49 05/11/2023 Allowed Bow Ties, Pudding, Chicken, Gravy, Mashed Potatoes, Ice Coffee Addressed cradle cap, foot doctor, nails.
50 05/13/2023 Allowed Fish sticks with Lemon and Tartar Sauce, Pudding, Penne with Sauce Gave $20 in fives.
51 05/18/2023 Allowed Pasta, Sushi Care plan meeting with T.(Head of Nursing), An.(Head of Admissions), Linda, Carol (phone). Discussed DNR, visited funeral home.
52 05/19/2023 Allowed None Told Linda not visiting if attitude does not improve.
53 05/21/2023 Allowed None Told Linda “they” don’t want visits until behavior improves: meds, bed, PT.
54 05/25/2023 Allowed Sushi, Pasta, Coffee Linda ID renewal.
55 05/27/2023 Allowed Pasta, Tapioca, Coffee Brought poster board, socks, T-shirt. Got card from niece Julie.
56 05/29/2023 Allowed Sushi, Pasta, Carrots, Coffee Measured ring size, brought church envelopes, patched chair, mailed Julie card with photos.
57 06/04/2023 Allowed Pasta Visited with Robert. Sent card to Scott and Felicia with photos.
58 06/06/2023 Allowed Pasta Saved bottles to make own Starbucks. Sent Father’s Day card to Panchee, brought church envelope, Biofreeze.
59 06/08/2023 Allowed Pasta, Turkey Sandwiches, Dessert, Whip Cream Fixed Linda’s Bible.
60 06/10/2023 Allowed Orzo, Rice w. Lemon, Starbucks, Whip Cream, Coffee w. Vanilla Kim’s birthday.
61 06/12/2023 Allowed None Linda fell off toilet seat, tried to grab sink. Brought disinfectant spray. New regimen.
62 06/15/2023 Allowed Pasta, Pudding, Coffee Needs new recliner, dentures.
63 06/16/2023 Allowed Baked beans w. onion, Turkey Sandwich, Coffee Sent thank you cards to Carol, T.(Head of Nursing), An.(Head of Admissions).
64 06/18/2023 Allowed Sandwiches, Coffee, Cake
65 06/21/2023 Allowed Chicken, Strawberries, Coffee, Whip Cream Washed throws, sheets for Linda’s chair.
66 06/22/2023 Allowed Sushi, Coffee, Pudding
67 06/23/2023 Allowed Pork chops, Rice, Coffee, Strawberries Sent thank you to J.(Transportation) Mitchell, brought hammer, brads for bathroom.
68 06/26/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwich, Coffee, Apple Tartlets, Potato aux gratin
69 06/27/2023 Allowed Meatloaf, Pudding, Coffee Brought charger, string for pull cords, small pillow, hot sauce. Steven returned heart monitor.
70 06/28/2023 Allowed Beans, Rice, Apple Tartlet Fixed motor on Linda’s chair, brought small stands for photos, bird seed.
71 06/29/2023 Allowed Turkey, Coffee, Apple Tartlets Fixed chair, motor again.
72 06/30/2023 Allowed Corn, Pasta, Coffee, Pudding Chair fixed. Sent cards to Richard, Scott, Andrew.
73 07/04/2023 Allowed Hotdogs, Relish, Pudding, Coffee, Apple Tartlet
74 07/06/2023 Allowed None Brought church envelopes. Fixed chair.
75 07/07/2023 Allowed Sushi, Cake, Starbucks
76 07/08/2023 Allowed Pasta, Pudding, Coffee Brought Aleve, photos, frames.
77 07/10/2023 Allowed Turkey, Patties, Strawberries, Coffee
78 07/12/2023 Allowed Flatbread, Cake, Coffee
79 07/14/2023 Allowed Cod, Coffee, Cake Did laundry, brought wedding photos.
80 07/17/2023 Allowed Orzo, Cake, Coffee PT, played bingo.
81 07/18/2023 Allowed Chicken, Strawberries, Jelly, Coffee, Rice Day Carol had car accident.
82 07/20/2023 Allowed Hamburgers Did nails.
83 07/21/2023 Allowed Sushi, Dessert, Coffee
84 07/22/2023 Allowed Pasta, Apple Tart, Coffee PT, played bingo.
85 07/24/2023 Allowed Hot dogs, sauerkraut, Jelly w. whipped cream, Coffee Belly danced with Rene.
86 07/26/2023 Allowed Penne w. meat sauce, Tartlets, Coffee PT, bingo. Brought hammer, nails, flashlight.
87 07/27/2023 Allowed Pork chops, Sweet Potato, Coffee, Dessert Fixed chair.
88 07/30/2023 Allowed Sushi, Coffee, Dessert Linda did PT.
89 07/31/2023 Allowed None Linda to hospital. No oatmeal. Conference with T.(Head of Nursing).
90 08/03/2023 Allowed Clams, Turkey Carol ordE.(Physical Therapy)g brace, toilet seat. Made out cards to send.
91 08/07/2023 Allowed Linguine, Dessert from Dairy Queen PT, played cards.
92 08/08/2023 Allowed Hamburgers Took photos of Linda’s feet for Carol.
93 08/09/2023 Allowed Hyvee Dessert and Platter, Sweet Potato, Pizza, Coffee Sent card to Father Timmermann.
94 08/12/2023 Allowed Pasta Linda’s birthday party. Cards for Linda, roommate Caroline.
95 08/13/2023 Allowed Beef tips, Potatoes, Apple Tarts
96 08/14/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches, dessert
97 08/15/2023 Allowed Plantains, Black beans, Salmon
98 08/16/2023 Allowed Hot dogs, sauerkraut, Beans, Coffee, Pudding
99 08/17/2023 Allowed Pasta Linda did nails.
100 08/18/2023 Allowed None Belly dance, PT, bingo. Sent card.
101 08/20/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches
102 08/21/2023 Allowed Turkey and Roast Beef sandwiches Steven got flu.
103 08/27/2023 Allowed Hot dogs, sauerkraut, coffee, apple tartlets
104 08/28/2023 Allowed Sushi, Coffee in Thermos
105 08/29/2023 Allowed Pasta, Coffee
106 08/30/2023 Allowed BBQ Beef tips, yellow rice, tea
107 08/31/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches, ice bags Straightened Linda’s closet.
108 09/01/2023 Allowed Pizza from Milanos, Icebags Brought photos, jewelry.
109 09/02/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches, Icebags Did nails, straightened drawers.
110 09/03/2023 Allowed Pasta w. meat sauce, Apple tartlets, frozen yogurt w. honey
111 09/07/2023 Allowed Pizza, Tartlets, Coffee Linda called cousin Leslie.
112 09/08/2023 Allowed Long John Silvers, shared with Caroline, Bakers Brought socks, shoes.
113 09/09/2023 Allowed Pizza Linda did nails.
114 09/13/2023 Allowed Linguine and clams
115 09/15/2023 Allowed Long John Silvers, Clams
116 09/19/2023 Allowed Sushi
117 09/20/2023 Allowed Beef Tips, saffron rice
118 09/29/2023 Allowed Sushi Brought Linda new phone.
119 10/01-14/2023 No Visit None Missing days in journal.
120 10/14/2023 Allowed BBQ Beef Tips
121 10/16/2023 Allowed Sushi Sent baby blanket to Julie.
122 10/17/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches with mayonnaise and tomato
123 10/18/2023 Allowed Spaghetti, Baba Ganoush, Coffee PT.
124 10/19/2023 Allowed Steak tips, potatoes, coffee Did nails, applied cream.
125 10/20/2023 Allowed Coffee, Sprite Brought booties for Linda.
126 10/23/2023 Allowed Pasta, homemade cake Organized Linda’s closet, dresser.
127 10/25/2023 Allowed Sushi PT. Applied hair dye.
128 10/28/2023 Allowed Pizza
129 10/29/2023 Allowed Pasta and sauce, L’Oreal
130 10/30/2023 Allowed Sole Almondine
131 10/31/2023 Allowed Roast beef, mustard, Swiss cheese, Vanilla cookies Brought face cream, glasses.
132 11/01/2023 Allowed Milanos Pizza
133 11/03/2023 Allowed Sushi Carol cut hand on garbage chute.
134 11/04/2023 Allowed Tacos Brought table, did laundry.
135 11/06/2023 Allowed McDonalds
136 11/08/2023 Allowed Rice, Beans, Plantain, BBQ Tips
137 11/10/2023 Allowed Bowties w. Sauce
138 11/13/2023 Allowed Penne w. clams, coffee Brought diamond earrings, fixed glasses.
139 11/15/2023 Allowed Pasta, Coffee Brought bulletin board for Linda.
140 11/16/2023 Allowed Burger King Hung Linda’s photos.
141 11/17/2023 Allowed Pasta, Coffee Belly dance, PT, brought photos, pillows, washcloths.
142 11/18/2023 Allowed Crab cakes
143 11/21/2023 Allowed Roast beef, tomato, lettuce, mustard, pepper bread Brought socks.
144 11/22/2023 Allowed Sushi, Coffee Sewed Linda’s pants, put up hooks.
145 11/23/2023 Allowed Turkey dinner, Pumpkin pie, Cranberries
146 11/24/2023 Allowed Leftovers
147 11/27/2023 Allowed Hotdogs, sauerkraut, buns PT, brought hooks.
148 11/28/2023 Allowed Coffee, Sprite Brought Linda’s long wool coat, perfume.
149 11/29/2023 Allowed Runza, Coffee Made Christmas card list.
150 11/30/2023 Allowed None PT, lunch, Carol’s anniversary.
151 12/02/2023 Allowed Flat bread, apple tartlets Played Jingo, brought cleaning stuff.
152 12/03/2023 Allowed Steak, Rice, Beans, Coffee
153 12/05/2023 Allowed Bread, Soup Made card for Richard’s birthday.
154 12/08/2023 Allowed Chicken w. Plantains, carrots, bread, coffee
155 12/10/2023 Allowed Green peppers, coffee, apple tartlets Brought thumbtacks for board.
156 12/14/2023 No Visit None No entry.
157 12/16/2023 No Visit None No entry.
158 12/19/2023 No Visit None No entry.
159 12/24/2023 No Visit None No entry.
160 12/25/2023 No Visit None No entry.
161 12/26/2023 Allowed Gold chain
162 12/28/2023 Allowed Chinese food PT, brought socks.
163 12/29/2023 Allowed None Steven sick.
164 12/31/2023 Allowed Turkey sandwiches Ironed Linda’s pants.
Linda Visitation Log: January 2024 - December 2024 (Reversed Order)
Visit Date Status Food Items Brought Notes
165 01/02/2024 Allowed Pizza
166 01/04/2024 Allowed Spaghetti, Sweet and Lo
167 01/11/2024 Allowed Waffles Linda slid off chair with nurse Patti.
168 01/12/2024 No Visit None Linda left in hallway 45 min by T.(Head of Nursing).
169 01/14/2024 Allowed Sour dough pancakes
170 01/16/2024 Allowed None Carol’s friend Johnny died day after father.
171 01/21/2024 Allowed Spaghetti, Pizza, Hot Cocoa w. vanilla
172 01/23/2024 Allowed Plum pudding Julie is sick.
173 01/25/2024 Allowed Burger King
174 01/26/2024 Allowed Pizza w. mushrooms and onion
175 01/30/2024 Allowed Risotta Brought church checks.
176 01/31/2024 Allowed Sushi PT, changed sheets. Lillian died.
177 02/02/2024 Allowed Turkey, Swiss, avocado
178 02/06/2024 Allowed Spaghetti
179 02/07/2024 Allowed Butter bread, mushroom soup PT.
180 02/08/2024 Allowed Spaghetti Carol: “She wants out!”
181 02/11/2024 Allowed Meatballs, sauce, bread
182 02/12/2024 Allowed Pizza, Apple Tartlets Paid for fish fry from church for Linda.
183 02/13/2024 Allowed Pork chop w. dressing, lemon, apple tartlet Brought moisturizer. Rose passed away. Carol’s hip out.
184 02/14/2024 Allowed Heart-shaped Pizza PT.
185 02/15/2024 Allowed Burger King
186 02/17/2024 Allowed Meatballs and Pasta Brought Linda’s clothes.
187 02/18/2024 Allowed Pasta Brought clothes, changed sheets.
188 02/19/2024 Allowed None Massage, clothes.
189 02/20/2024 Allowed Meatball sandwiches, Apple tart Carol bronchial asthma on steroids.
190 02/21/2024 Allowed McDonalds Sewed Linda’s pants.
191 02/23/2024 Allowed Salmon, saffron rice, teriyaki sauce Brought cough drops.
192 02/29/2024 Allowed Burger King Sewed shirt/pants. Kyle tore bicep.
193 03/01/2024 Allowed Bean soup PT. Ordered earrings.
194 03/02/2024 Allowed Soup, Pasta, Pudding
195 03/03/2024 Allowed Pizza
196 03/04/2024 Allowed Roast Beef and Avocado salad, Sweet and Lo
197 03/05/2024 Allowed Meatballs and Pasta Brought check to church.
198 03/08/2024 Allowed Salmon, rice, tartlet, garlic bread Sewed slacks.
199 03/09/2024 Allowed Pizza and breadsticks
200 03/11/2024 Allowed Stuffed bell peppers w. cucumber salad Sent St. Patrick’s day card.
201 03/13/2024 Allowed Pasta, garlic bread Brought check to church.
202 03/14/2024 Allowed Chili relleno
203 03/15/2024 Allowed Celery seed red cabbage soup
204 03/17/2024 Allowed Corn beef and cabbage, apple turnover
205 03/18/2024 Allowed Leftover Corn Beef
206 03/20/2024 Allowed Pizza PT.
207 03/21/2024 Allowed Enchiladas
208 03/29/2024 Allowed Baked honey ham
209 03/30/2024 Allowed None Brought new chair with brother to Linda.
210 04/03/2024 Allowed Runza
211 04/05/2024 Allowed Red Lobster Sewed shirt.
212 04/06/2024 Allowed Lobster, Card, Earrings Anniversary No. 15.
213 04/08/2024 Allowed Burger King
214 04/10/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu J.(Transportation) Mitchell did nails.
215 04/12/2024 Allowed Apple pie Watched My Cousin Vinnie.
216 04/17/2024 Allowed Salad, banana bread
217 04/19/2024 Allowed Pasta and bread
218 04/21/2024 Allowed Pasta, apple betty
219 04/24/2024 Allowed Salmon and orzo salad Walked outside.
220 04/25/2024 Allowed Red Lobster Meet & Greet at Prestige. Met entire staff.
221 04/27/2024 Allowed Pasta Tornado alert. Linda won’t go to hall.
222 04/29/2024 Allowed Sauce, Garlic bread Carol at dentist. Fight w. Julie.
223 04/30/2024 Allowed Garlic toast Julie’s baby sick, temp. 103.
224 05/02/2024 Allowed Meatballs and Pasta
225 05/03/2024 Allowed Sushi Brought Linda’s clothes from dry cleaners. Card for nurse Patti’s birthday.
226 05/04-05/2024 Allowed None Kentucky Derby Party.
227 05/07/2024 Allowed Cheese steak Cleaned Linda’s closet.
228 05/08/2024 Allowed Stuffed peppers Mailed Mother’s Day cards to Julie and Carol.
229 05/13/2024 Allowed Peppers, bread, artichokes, Chicken Cordon Bleu
230 05/15/2024 Allowed Burger King Brought bird seed, nuts.
231 05/16/2024 Allowed McDonalds Visited with brother.
232 05/17/2024 Allowed Pasta, tres leche
233 05/18/2024 Allowed Crepe w. Bechamel sauce
234 05/20/2024 Allowed Beef Wellington PT, went outside, did nails, sewed pants.
235 05/22/2024 Allowed Salad, Meatballs w. sauce, Banana bread, Soda
236 05/24/2024 Allowed Stuffed mushroom, salad, blueberry cake
237 05/27/2024 Allowed Catfish, salad, strawberry shortcake Did nails, changed sheets.
238 05/29/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu
239 05/31/2024 Allowed Meatballs, pasta, apple pie
240 06/01/2024 Allowed Burger King, salad
241 06/03/2024 Allowed Shrimp, tomatoes, pie, cookies
242 06/07/2024 Allowed Pasta & Pie
243 06/08/2024 Allowed Crepes and Bread
244 06/10/2024 Allowed Spaghetti, Blueberries, avocado
245 06/12/2024 Allowed Pork chops, Broccoli, Strawberries Brought wash cloths, letter from Bishop Connelly.
246 06/15/2024 Allowed Blueberry Pie, Teriyaki Salmon
247 06/18/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu, Raspberry Pie
248 06/20/2024 Allowed Lamb, Salad, Cherry Pie
249 06/21/2024 Allowed Salad, Cherry Pie
250 06/22/2024 Allowed Steak and Salad
251 06/25/2024 Allowed Spaghetti sauce, Smoked salmon cheese platters, capers, toast
252 06/27/2024 Allowed Meatballs, fresh sauce An.(Head of Admissions): “Thrilled taking Linda outside.”
253 06/28/2024 Allowed Sauce w. meatballs, Avocado salad
254 06/29/2024 Allowed Salad, Apple Pie
255 07/01/2024 Allowed Endive salad, apple pie
256 07/03/2024 Allowed Eggplant sauce and farfelle, Glazed pears
257 07/04/2024 Allowed Pork loin, strawberry pie, potatoes
258 07/09/2024 Allowed Beef Wellington, Fig Tort Linda’s ID card needs renewal.
259 07/10/2024 Allowed Pasta, Orange Marmalade cookies, fig tort
260 07/13/2024 Allowed Pasta, Meatballs, cookies Carol’s car accident.
261 07/16/2024 Allowed Chicken and Rice, Banana bread, whipped cream, homemade Cherry Jam
262 07/18/2024 Allowed Meatballs, Strawberry Pie Sent card to Richard and Glenna. Carol: fungal patches.
263 07/20-21/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu, Caprese Salad
264 07/22/2024 Allowed Asparagus w. shrimp, Sweet and Lo
265 07/26/2024 Allowed Pasta, caprese salad, candied walnuts Ashley has appendicitis.
266 07/29/2024 Allowed Shrimp, Poka, Sturgeon
267 07/30/2024 Allowed Salad, Pie, ice cream Ben’s mother’s sister died. Julie hurt knee.
268 08/01/2024 Allowed Salad and Chutney
269 08/02/2024 Allowed Burger King Un-opened bottle of vodka unknowingly in bag, brought to car.
270 08/05/2024 Allowed None Not sure if saw Linda.
271 08/06/2024 Allowed Milano Pizza Brought new chair for Linda.
272 08/07/2024 Allowed Farfelle & sauce Linda’s glasses ready.
273 08/08/2024 Allowed Pasta and Clams
274 08/09/2024 Denied None Turned away at door, no notice, per guardian’s direction. Told cannot bring bag. Left silently.
275 08/12/2024 Denied Cake, clams Turned away on Linda’s birthday with cake, presents, balloon. T.(Head of Nursing) cited “lockdown.”
276 08/18/2024 Allowed Burger King Visits resume. Labeled Linda’s clothes. Fed squirrels and birds.
277 08/20/2024 Allowed Pork Loin, glazed carrots, saffron rice PT. Tried to fix up makeup bag Carol sent.
278 08/21/2024 Allowed Lasagne and bread New table fits perfect. PT, fence walk, fed squirrels and birds.
279 08/23/2024 Allowed Pasta and clams Walked fence. Fed animals.
280 08/24/2024 Allowed Pasta and red sauce
281 08/26-27/2024 Allowed Crab cakes, Bot Choi w. feta and fire-roasted peppers PT.
282 08/27/2024 Allowed Pasta and cabbage salad
283 08/28/2024 Allowed Pasta and two types of salad
284 08/29/2024 Allowed McDonalds
285 08/30/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu
286 08/31/2024 Allowed Shared apple turnovers, Pastry chicken breast, Penne side dish
287 09/01/2024 Allowed Fettucine Shrimp Scampi
288 09/02/2024 Allowed Fig turnovers and salad
289 09/03/2024 Allowed Chicken salad and fig jam
290 09/04/2024 Allowed Sauce and Penne, Blueberry strudel
291 09/05/2024 Allowed Burger King
292 09/06/2024 Allowed Mini-meatloaf, faux crab w. lion head mushrooms
293 09/07/2024 Allowed Lamb legs, mini potatoes, Greek salad
294 09/08/2024 Allowed Farfelle and clams, raspberries
295 09/09/2024 Allowed Pasta w. fresh sauce
296 09/10/2024 Allowed Baba Ganoush, guacamole, Tuna sandwich
297 09/11/2024 Allowed Eggplant parmesan, raspberries, cookies
298 09/12/2024 Allowed Baked clam shells, tomato garlic salad with capers
299 09/13/2024 Allowed Half rack of pork loin ribs and buttermilk buns
300 09/14/2024 Allowed Pork Loin, penne with sauce
301 09/15/2024 Allowed Homemade Pizza
302 09/16/2024 Allowed Homemade tomato soup, grilled cheese sandwiches
303 09/17/2024 Allowed Eggplant parmesan, sauted spinach
304 09/18/2024 Allowed Penne and sauce
305 09/19/2024 Allowed Sauted chicken tofu, wilted salad
306 09/20/2024 Allowed Burger King
307 09/21/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu
308 09/22/2024 Allowed Stuffed Pork Chops
309 09/23/2024 Allowed Skillet corn w. butter, Penne w. pepper sauce
310 09/24/2024 Allowed Burger King
311 09/25/2024 Allowed Pork and Meat meatballs, apple turnover
312 09/26/2024 Allowed Dates wrapped in bacon, banana bread
313 09/27/2024 Allowed Stuffed clams, Frozen strawberries
314 09/28/2024 Allowed Pizza from Milanos
315 09/29/2024 Allowed Lamb shanks
316 09/30/2024 Allowed McDonalds
317 10/01/2024 Allowed Eggplant Parmesan, Banana bread, Mushroom soup
318 10/02/2024 Allowed Sushi
319 10/03/2024 Allowed NY Strip Steak
320 10/04/2024 Allowed Penne w. sauce, meatballs
321 10/05/2024 Allowed Leftovers
322 10/06/2024 Allowed Burger King
323 10/07/2024 Allowed Penne w. sauce, Deconstructed manicotti, Blueberry Bread
324 10/08/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu, Mashed Potatoes
325 10/09/2024 Allowed Grilled Cheese w. Homemade Tomato Soup, Plum Pastry
326 10/10/2024 Allowed Shrimp in garlic sauce, Sauted spinach
327 10/11/2024 Allowed BLT and leftovers
328 10/12/2024 Allowed Mushroom soup, Farfelle w. sausage sauce
329 10/13/2024 Allowed Meat loaf, apple turnover
330 10/14/2024 Allowed Burger King
331 10/15/2024 Allowed Homemade Pizza
332 10/16/2024 Allowed Penne and sauce, Spaghetti sandwich
333 10/17/2024 Allowed NY strip, Potatoes, Onion, Salad
334 10/18/2024 Allowed Chicken breast Wellington, Salad
335 10/19/2024 Allowed Farfelle w. eggplant sauce
336 10/20/2024 Allowed Pork chop and red eye gravy, Fire roasted peppers, potatoes and tomatoes
337 10/21/2024 Allowed McDonald
338 10/22/2024 Allowed Salmon w. garlic and butter, saffron rice, salad
339 10/23/2024 Allowed Penne w. eggplant, mushroom sauce
340 10/24/2024 Allowed Fried drumsticks and waffles
341 10/25/2024 Allowed Pastry wrapped chicken Cordon Bleu
342 10/26/2024 Allowed Pizza from Milanos
343 10/27/2024 Allowed Leftovers
344 10/28/2024 Allowed Mini-farfelle w. sauce, Salad w. grapes and raspberries
345 10/29/2024 Allowed Burger King
346 10/30/2024 Allowed Meatball sandwich
347 10/31/2024 Allowed Homemade Pizza and Banana bread
348 11/01/2024 Allowed Macaroni w. cheese and ham
349 11/02/2024 Allowed Pan fried catfish, bagel and cream, salad, blueberries
350 11/03/2024 Allowed Mushroom soup, Chicken salad
351 11/04/2024 Allowed Crab cakes, Plum dessert
352 11/05/2024 Allowed Pasta and pasta sandwich, gatorade
353 11/06/2024 Allowed Burger King
354 11/07/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu, Salad
355 11/08/2024 Allowed Manicotti, grapes
356 11/09/2024 Allowed Pork chops w. gravy, banana bread
357 11/10/2024 Allowed Manicotti pasta
358 11/11/2024 Allowed Burger King
359 11/12/2024 Allowed Celery soup and chicken salad
360 11/13/2024 Allowed Pizza and cookies
361 11/14/2024 Allowed Catfish, salad, garlic rolls, banana bread
362 11/15/2024 Allowed Tomato soup, grilled cheese, homemade chocolate chip cookies
363 11/16/2024 Allowed Meatballs, Pasta, and Salad
364 11/17/2024 Allowed Lamb chop, Brussel sprouts, black barley
365 11/18/2024 Allowed Ham and Cheese sandwich
366 11/19/2024 Allowed Penne and sauce, blueberries w. risotto and honey
367 11/20/2024 Allowed Mac and cheese, Pecan Pie
368 11/21/2024 Allowed Bagels and cream cheese, homemade tomato-vegetable soup
369 11/22/2024 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu, glazed carrots w. brown sugar
370 11/23/2024 Allowed Leg of lamb, rosemary roasted potatoes, Greek salad
371 11/24/2024 Allowed Guacamole, banana bread, raspberries
372 11/25/2024 Allowed Penne and sauce, sauted spinach, raspberries
373 11/26/2024 Allowed Spinach w. garlic and olive oil
374 11/27/2024 No Visit None
375 11/28/2024 Allowed Turkey w. all fixings
376 11/29/2024 Allowed Turkey sandwich and pumpkin pie
377 11/30/2024 Allowed Pasta w. sauce, Salad, Raspberries
378 12/01/2024 Allowed Turkey soup, stuffing, cheesecake, raspberries w. goat cheese
379 12/02/2024 No Visit None
380 12/03/2024 Allowed Tacos from Margarehta Restaurant
381 12/04/2024 Allowed Burger King
382 12/05/2024 Allowed Pasta w. homemade sauce
383 12/06/2024 Allowed Meatballs, sauce, bagel w. cream cheese
384 12/07/2024 No Visit None
385 12/08/2024 Allowed Chicken sauce and Pasta
386 12/09/2024 Allowed Burger King
387 12/10/2024 Allowed Sirloin steak, homemade apple butter
388 12/11/2024 Allowed Farfelle w. chicken sauce
389 12/12/2024 Allowed Chicken enchiladas from Margarehta Restaurant
390 12/13/2024 Allowed Baked clams w. shrimp
391 12/14/2024 Allowed Fresh chicken salad
392 12/15/2024 Allowed Michellena’s mac and cheese
393 12/16/2024 Allowed Pan seared pork chops, fire roasted red onions
394 12/17/2024 Allowed Mac and Cheese
395 12/18/2024 Allowed Pasta and sauce
396 12/19/2024 Allowed Meatball sandwich
397 12/20/2024 Allowed Burger King
398 12/21/2024 Allowed Beef Stew
399 12/23/2024 Allowed Fire roasted carrots, shallots, onions, and stew
400 12/24/2024 Allowed Homemade Pizza
401 12/25/2024 Allowed Duck ala Orange
402 12/26/2024 No Visit None
403 12/27/2024 Allowed Duck sandwich and root vegetables
404 12/28/2024 Allowed Beef stew, carrots, sweet potatoes
405 12/29/2024 Allowed Penne w. chicken sauce, sweet potatoes
406 12/30/2024 Allowed Chicken Salad
407 12/31/2024 Allowed Lobster Dinner
Linda Visitation Log: January 2025 - April 2025 (Reversed Order)
Visit Date Status Food Items Brought Notes
408 01/01/2025 Allowed Lobster, ravioli, Orange, grape, walnut salad
409 01/02/2025 No Visit None
410 01/03/2025 Allowed Pasta
411 01/04/2025 Allowed Tomato soup and grilled cheese
412 01/05/2025 Allowed Mac and cheese w. hamburger-Michellena’s
413 01/06/2025 No Visit None
414 01/07/2025 Allowed Pasta and sauce
415 01/08/2025 No Visit None
416 01/09/2025 No Visit None
417 01/10/2025 No Visit None
418 01/11/2025 Allowed Grilled Cheese and Tomato Sauce
419 01/12/2025 Allowed Pasta and Salad
420 01/13/2025 No Visit None
421 01/14/2025 Allowed Meatballs and Pasta
422 01/15/2025 No Visit None
423 01/16/2025 Allowed Pasta and Coffee
424 01/17/2025 No Visit None
425 01/18/2025 Allowed Turkey and Swiss sandwich
426 01/19/2025 Allowed Chicken Cordon Bleu
427 01/20/2025 Allowed Homemade Pizza
428 01/21/2025 Allowed Homemade Mexican Fiesta
429 01/22/2025 Allowed Turkey Sandwiches Linda walked to bathroom with Steven.
430 01/23/2025 Allowed Roast beef sandwiches
431 01/24/2025 Allowed Pork Chops
432 01/25/2025 Allowed Leftover pork chop sandwiches
433 01/26/2025 Allowed Penne and Sauce
434 01/27/2025 Allowed Roast beef sandwiches and salad
435 01/28/2025 Allowed Grilled cheese, tomato soup, strawberries w. whipped cream
436 01/29/2025 Allowed Farfelle w. meat sauce, Italian salad, Brioche w. butter
437 01/30/2025 Banned None Barred, T.(Head of Nursing) removed Linda’s Google Home. Linda upset, felt isolated.
438 02/01/2025 Delivered Card, Brace Delivered items, no visit.
439 02/02/2025 Delivered Pasta, Chips and Dip, Gatorade Delivered items, no visit.
440 02/03/2025 Delivered Runza, Chips, Dip, Avocado, frozen Gatorade Delivered items, no visit.
441 02/04/2025 No Delivery None
442 02/05/2025 Delivered Meatballs, Pasta, Salad Delivered items, no visit.
443 02/06/2025 No Delivery None
444 02/07/2025 Banned None Banned, no deliveries per guardian.
445 02/08/2025–04/07/2025 Banned None 68-day visitation ban.
446 04/08/2025 Denied Burger King, soda Entry blocked, no court order; food refused. T.(Head of Nursing) and J.(Transportation) intercepted, Steven felt embarrassed.
447 04/10/2025 Allowed (2.5 hrs) Starry soda, DoorDash order (rejected) Water bottle dispute; Linda’s distress. Provided bathroom assistance, denture care, SLUMS test (score 28). Linda cried about room 509.
448 04/11/2025 Allowed (3.0 hrs) Snacks, 20 Sprite cans (from Carol) Garbage bags dispute; Linda’s weakness, trembling. Provided bathroom assistance, PT (1006 steps), denture care.
449 04/12/2025 Denied None Visitation barred over water bottle. Nurse Linda cited Head Nurse Carla. Linda later cried, said, “I have no sister.”
450 04/13/2025 Phone None Visitation barred; Linda isolated, sad. Reported discomfort in room 509. Prayed multiple times.
451 04/14/2025 Phone and video None Suspected TIA; slurred speech, smile droop. Linda reported pain, fatigue. Staff response inadequate.
452 04/15/2025 Phone None Face droop, confusion; possible TIA. Linda lethargic, fumbling phone. Contacted HAVOCA, RAINN for therapy.
453 04/16/2025 Phone None Linda depressed, sore, skipped PT. Poor room conditions. Felt better after shower, requested animal print sheets.
454 04/17/2025 Phone None Linda stronger but sleepless, depressed. Took Trazodone, requested sheet change. Trazodone timing concerning.
455 04/18/2025 Phone None Hard night; waited over 1 hr for bathroom, felt dismissed. Linda completed 1200 PT steps. New judge order for April 19 visit.
456 04/19/2025 Allowed (2.1 hrs) Starbucks ($4.50), chips ($1.75) Suspected TIA; neglected room, hostile staff. Provided bathroom assistance, changed sheets, reviewed legal papers. Linda subdued, slurred speech, said she was “beat up.”
457 04/20/2025 Allowed (1.7 hrs) Starbucks ($4.25) Linda lethargic, missed shower. Provided bathroom (2x), denture care, cleaned room. Hostile environment, bare-minimum care.
458 04/21/2025 Allowed (1.1 hrs) Starbucks ($4.25) Linda improving post-TIA. Provided bathroom, straightened room, went outside. Hostile environment, uncomfortable room.
459 04/22/2025 Allowed (1.4 hrs) Starbucks ($4.25) Cleaning supplies, air freshener confiscated by Nurse Linda, Naomi. Provided bathroom (2x), went outside. Naomi showed animosity.
460 04/23/2025 Allowed (2.0 hrs) Starbucks ($4.25) Hostile environment; Linda’s mood improving, smile better. Provided bathroom (2x), put up photo montage. Mary fell, staff slow to respond.
461 04/24/2025 Allowed (2.0 hrs) Store-bought pizza, breadsticks (by Robert), Starbucks ($4.25) Pizza confiscated by T.(Head of Nursing); harassment, Robert reported theft to police. Provided bathroom (2x), denture care, discussed Bible. Linda’s smile improves, but weak arm persists.

EXPOSE: Nursing Home Grift and Nebraska Scandals

Part I: A Look Back

Nursing homes, poorhouses, workhouses, almshouses—these “charitable” enterprises blur the line between gift and grift. Originating in England with Henry VIII’s monastery dissolution (1534–1538), they’ve long been plagued by abuse, as Charles Dickens’ Oliver Twist and reformers like Richard Oastler exposed. The American Way of “doing good by doing well” thrives on public money, fueling corruption.

English Whig-Tory debates echo today’s Democrat-Republican divide:

The 1935 Social Security Act, opposed by Republicans and the AMA, birthed policies like Medicare/Medicaid (1965) and the 2010 ACA. The 1950 Amendments (Public Law 81-734) were the industry’s “moon shot,” introducing vendor payments that grew nursing homes to 500,000 residents by 1950. Banning Old-Age Assistance to poorhouses, they shifted care to private facilities.

David Riesman’s The Lonely Crowd (1950) explains this: suburbanization led families to trust “experts” for elder care. But this faith faltered during COVID-19, with mismanagement killing 209,000 residents. Mary Adelaide Mendelson’s 1974 Tender Loving Greed warned of abuses—starvation, fraud—yet lessons fade. Both parties take nursing home lobby funds (AHCA’s $111M in 2021). Nothing to see here, right?

Canary in the Coal Mine

COVID-19 exposed nursing home grift, with 209,000 deaths (12% of residents) by 2022. New York’s 2020 scandal—50% underreported deaths, 9,000 forced COVID-positive admissions—set the stage. Nebraska’s 2023 receivership showed similar flaws. CMS spends $147–153B annually (2025): $135B for 1.6M nursing home residents, $12–18B for 850,000 assisted living residents. Nebraska’s $1–2B, boosted by a 2024 $23M provider tax, fuels operators like Ephram “Mordy” Lahasky, whose 20–25 facilities earn $50–100M yearly through the “syndicate” model: cutting staff, falsifying records, and diverting funds. Media neglect leaves families in “information poverty,” unaware of risks.

Scandal in Nebraska’s Backyard

Nebraska’s 192 nursing homes, serving ~10,000 residents, mirror national issues. The 2023 receivership of 21 facilities, due to Skyline Healthcare’s payroll failure, included Lahasky’s Broken Bow and Cozad, with four facing closure. Prestige Care Center of Plattsmouth, another Lahasky facility, faced 2025 allegations of denying religious services and visitation. Nebraska’s 19% CMS staffing compliance, low Medicaid rates (0.58 ratio), and CON laws enable Lahasky’s neglect, unreported nationally due to Republican-led oversight leniency.

Key Scandals

Lahasky’s Grift

Podcast: Nursing Home Rhymes

NURSING HOME RHYMES

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Rescuing Linda

By Steven Donahue, nursinghomerhymes.com Linda's Photo

I've become a sort of Mr. Nursing Home, a retired professor fighting to rescue my wife Linda, trapped in a nursing home's grip. Linda's endured a 2010 stroke, a 2022 setback, 26 months at Prestige Care Center in a town of 6,000 souls in Plattsmouth, Nebraska. I'm Steven Donahue, and this is Nursing Home Rhymes. A love story set against a money-making machine. Picture the Bullseye, like Dante's Hell.

Bullseye Diagram

Residents at the core, crushed by greed. Revenue runs it, cash in, cost down, beds full.
Mine is a rescue mission. I'll fight like a tiger to bring Linda home.
Stay with me.
Picture a bullseye. In the center, residents like my Linda, 66, suffer an unrelenting hell. She's learned to walk four times: as a toddler, skiing mishap, stroke, now confined to Prestige's 111 beds. Her guardian, a so-called sister Carol, does not allow her to go to Catholic mass next door.
You can put lipstick on a pig, but a nursing home is just four walls.
While her mind's sharp, the system traps her forever. I handed guardianship to her sister, a misstep, yet Linda fights back.
My odds of freeing her: five to 15%. Residents are powerless, like Dante's limbo. Innocent but tormented.
I am daily driven to prayer and poetry as an antidote to the upside-down world of a nursing home.
In W.H. Auden's poem, Old People's Homes, some stanzas come to heart about the relatively recent trend, 1950s, of putting our loved ones in a place other than in the bosom of the family. He writes:

As of now, we all know
what to expect, but their generation
is the first to fade like this.
Not at home, but assigned
to a numbered frequent ward.
Stowed out of conscience
as unpopular luggage.

Nursing homes are a lonely crowd. 16 million in nursing homes today. 23 million predicted by 2030, and at least 50 million Americans know someone inside right now. So this is the story of millions of Americans, and sadly, it is a terminal story.

What is my wife's life worth? $406,844.34. It has already been entered into the accounting profit spreadsheet.

\[ \text{NPV} = \sum_{t=1}^{240} \frac{3000}{(1 + 0.004167)^t} \]

Annuity formula:

\[ \text{NPV} = 3000 \cdot \frac{1 - (1 + 0.004167)^{-240}}{0.004167} \]

Result:

\[ \text{NPV} \approx \$406,844.34 \]

Angels

If not for visitors, the hell hole that some nursing homes represent would go unnoticed and unrelieved.
Here's my trick: the structured visit. Having a plan after visiting my wife for over two years and driving some 15,000 miles in near-daily trips has become as natural as riding a bicycle. The visits are bookended by prayer and kisses.
Always bring something, always take something home to clean or repair, then return. Send cards at least weekly as residents look forward to the mail. Encourage residents to go to PT and activities. Follow up with phone calls. Ask the names of those attending. Keep your loved ones' number two pencil sharp in exchanges, always offer hope.
Be in the now, not the then.
For some of you who are visiting a nursing home, it may be awkward, not knowing quite what to do. Psychologically, it is not a task that some look forward to as they enter bleak territory. Visitors and most residents know that the future is mostly terminal.
Over the past couple of years, the Office of Public Guardian here in Nebraska has only been able to get a handful of residents home from a nursing home. To a home where the needs are better met by a care team. But getting home for some is like Don Quixote, tilting at windmills.
Without help, letters and pleas to a judge will be ignored, according to the Disability Rights of Nebraska. For many residents, nursing homes can be overkill, and their needs can be met at home with a care team in place.
Back to how to visit: some folks just bring food, stand by the bed. It is not ideal, but it is gold to the residents. Others, like my friend Kate shine. She's there daily for her daughter. Just by bringing her things, escorting her to bingo or meals, it provides a sort of life for her daughter to look forward to.
Kate wrote for me when I asked: "Steve and I sign in minutes apart. Summers are porch days, feeding the squirrels. Steve's got snacks for Linda too." Sadly, her daughter, also named Lynda, is fading. But we talk, we connect. It lifts us all.
Kate's truth, she said, "visit near daily to know their care". She knows you gotta keep an eye on them. She wrote, "If I'm ever in a home, I hope my husband is as good as Steve." That hit me hard.
Good grows even here.
Here's the secret: try to find something beautiful each day, even if it's the color of a bruise on your arm. Say a prayer before you enter a nursing home, and a prayer afterwards.

Enablers

The next circle holds enablers. Families, desperate, place loved ones, hoping for care. A trap door.
Nurses pour love into residents, but attorneys hoard guardianships for profit. Judges ignore pleas. Agencies like Nebraska's Disability Rights warn of Who's Guarding the Guardians? Yet stay quiet in Dante's Hell.
This is desire, love, or greed trapping residents. The head of nursing said Medicaid won't let patients go home. Truth or lie? I'm finding out.
Later, we will dissect this enabling circle.

The Syndicate

Cash in, cost down, beds full.
For profit syndicates drive quality down to 1 star, the lowest government rating.
They make money 6-ways from Sunday and escape all culpability behind shell corporations.
They borrow against the actuarial tables and each patient's number is their Net Present Value (NPR):
\[ \text{NPV} = \sum_{t=1}^{n} \frac{CF_t}{(1 + r)^t} \] Above the enabling circle, wolves prowl. There are syndicates, like Meyer Lahasky's, running one-star homes like Prestige. They value Linda as a human asset, using net present value: $3,000 monthly Medicaid over her 20-year life, discounted. Because today's cash beats tomorrow's risk.
That's $406,844 added to their spreadsheet.
They pack beds, cut staff, borrow against her life. Dodge fraud suits with bankruptcy. Like in Pennsylvania and New York. Because of syndicates like these, residents have lost both life and limb in Dante's Hell. This is fraud, greed, crushing Linda's care. This is one of the most important stories about who is behind running your life into the arms of a Nursing Home Industry.

The Government

I smell waste, fraud, corruption, campaign donations, and apathy.
Medicaid is big. It accounts for 60% or more of the residents and half of the $130 billion pot for this nursing home industry.
Getting out alive is rare from long-term care. Only five to 10% get out alive. It is a growth industry.
In the Outermost circle, CMS pours endless Medicaid money, feeding this hell like a trophic chain. Groups like the American Healthcare Association spend $4 million yearly to block staffing rules, while for-profit homes siphon $12 billion to shell companies they own, hiding profits.
Oversight fails.
See no evil, letting syndicates thrive in Dante's lowest circle.
This is treachery, betraying residents like Linda with funds meant for care.
She's not a number. She's my love.
This fight is for everyone trapped. You have to fight like a tiger.
Syndicates value Linda at $406,844 and 34 cents. To me, she's infinitely precious. This is a rescue mission. Yes, for my Linda, but also, potentially, for your loved ones too.

Unmasking the Syndicate’s Human Toll

By Steven Donahue, donahue.steven@gmail.com Steven Donahue Photo

DelivE.(Physical Therapy)g a gut-punch with Nursing Home Rhymes, a podcast series tearing into the nursing home industry and its dark underbelly, aka "the Syndicate." Raw, real, and unfiltered.

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Poems: Voices of Resilience

We all find ourselves in situations that seem overwhelming. I frequently resort to prayer and poetry to get through the hard times. Poetry can say something to us that would otherwise be elusive. Here are some of the sentiments driving the Nursing Home Rhymes project.

These poems, featured in our podcast and newsletter, capture the heart of Linda Marie Lefebvre’s fight in PR 22-1652 against nursing home violations, including denied church access and withheld care. From anonymous cries to timeless reflections, they echo our real-time visit logs (see Daily Visits).

See Me

What do you see, nurses, what do you see?
A crabby old woman, not very wise,
Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes,
Who dribbles her food and makes no reply,
When you say in a loud voice — “I do wish you’d try.”

So open your eyes, nurses, open and see,
Not a crabby old woman, look closer, nurses — see ME!

By Anonymous, found among an elderly lady’s possessions in a hospital, as cited in the “Assessment and Alternatives Help Guide” by the Colorado Foundation for Medical Care. Believed to be in the public domain due to unknown authorship. Documented in our Daily Visits.

Old People's Home

All are limitory, but each has her own
nuance of damage. The elite can dress and decent themselves,
are ambulant with a single stick, adroit
to read a book all through, or play the slow movements of
easy sonatas. (Yet, perhaps their very
carnal freedom is their spirit's bane: intelligent
of what has happened and why, they are obnoxious
to a glum beyond tears.) Then come those on wheels, the average
majority, who endure T.V. and, led by
lenient therapists, do community-singing
, then
the loners, muttE.(Physical Therapy)g in Limbo, and last
the terminally incompetent, as improvident,
unspeakable, impeccable as the plants
they parody. (Plants may sweat profusely but never
sully themselves.)

One tie, though, unites them: all
appeared when the world, though much was awry there, was more
spacious, more comely to look at, its Old Ones
with an audience and secular station. Then a child,
in dismay with Mamma, could refuge with Gran
to be revalued and told a story. As of now,
we all know what to expect, but their generation
is the first to fade like this, not at home but assigned
to a numbered frequent ward, stowed out of conscience
as unpopular luggage.


As I ride the subway
to spend half-an-hour with one, I revisage
who she was in the pomp and sumpture of her hey-day,
when week-end visits were a presumptive joy,
not a good work. Am I cold to wish for a speedy
painless dormition, pray, as I know she prays,
that God or Nature will abrupt her earthly function?

By W.H. Auden (1907–1973), reflecting Linda’s isolation at Prestige, as documented in our Daily Visits. © Estate of W.H. Auden. Quoted under fair use for advocacy purposes in PR 22-1652.

Ordinance on Arrival

Welcome to you
who have managed to get here.
It’s been a terrible trip;
you should be happy you have survived it.
Statistics prove that not many do.
You would like a bath, a hot meal,
a good night’s sleep. Some of you
need medical attention.
None of this is available.
These things have always been
in short supply; now
they are impossible to obtain.

This is not
a temporary situation;
it is permanent.
Our condolences on your disappointment.
It is not our responsibility
everything you have heard about this place
is false. It is not our fault
you have been deceived,
ruined your health getting here.
For reasons beyond our control
there is no vehicle out.

By Naomi Lazard, from Ordinances (1984), capturing the betrayal of care at Prestige, as documented in our Daily Visits. © Naomi Lazard. Quoted under fair use for advocacy purposes in PR 22-1652.

Because I Could Not Stop for Death

Because I could not stop for Death –
He kindly stopped for me –
The Carriage held but just Ourselves –
And Immortality.


We slowly drove – He knew no haste
And I had put away
My labor and my leisure too,
For His Civility –

We passed the School, where Children strove
At Recess – in the Ring –
We passed the Fields of Gazing Grain –
We passed the Setting Sun –

Or rather – He passed Us –
The Dews drew quivE.(Physical Therapy)g and Chill –
For only Gossamer, my Gown –
My Tippet – only Tulle –

We paused before a House that seemed
A Swelling of the Ground –
The Roof was scarcely visible –
The Cornice – in the Ground –

Since then – 'tis Centuries – and yet
Feels shorter than the Day
I first surmised the Horses' Heads
Were toward Eternity –

By Emily Dickinson (1830–1886), reflecting Linda’s quiet dignity amidst Prestige’s neglect, as documented in our Daily Visits. Public domain.

Media: Advocacy in the Spotlight

Press

Our fight for Linda’s justice is amplified by media exposing nursing home fraud and neglect, relevant to PR 22-1652 at Prestige Care Center.

  • UnitedHealth Secretly Paid Nursing Homes to Cut Hospital Transfers (The Guardian, May 21, 2025) – Reveals UnitedHealth’s bonuses to nursing homes for reducing hospitalizations, risking resident health.
  • Omaha Daily Record (Omaha Daily Record, May 7, 2025) – Features the fight for Linda’s justice, exposing nursing home fraud and MSBP in PR 22-1652 at Prestige Care Center.
  • Inside the ‘multibillion-dollar game’ to funnel cash from nursing homes to sister companies (NJ.com, April 30, 2025) – Exposes how nursing home owners siphon billions in Medicaid funds through related-party transactions, leading to understaffing and neglect, as seen at South Jersey Extended Care, relevant to Prestige’s fraud, understaffing, and CMS violations in PR 22-1652. Contacts: Ted Sherman (tsherman@njadvancemedia.com), Susan K. Livio (slivio@njadvancemedia.com), Matthew Miller (mmiller@mlive.com), An.(Head of Admissions) Levy (newsroom@njadvancemedia.com), Patti Sapone (newsroom@njadvancemedia.com).
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  • Omaha Daily Record (Omaha Daily Record, May 7, 2025) – Features the fight for Linda’s justice, exposing nursing home fraud and MSBP in PR 22-1652 at Prestige Care Center.

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